So you want to bring up the whole real man thing again?
Definition of a Real Man
When does one become a man? At age 18? 21? When they support themselves?
NO! A REAL MAN must do the following (but there are exceptions, look later for them):
1) Be married.
2) Have 2-4 kids that you support finaicially and emotionally. Less than 2 kids is not enough, and more than 4 means that your time is spread out too much.
3) Must be a GOOD father.
4) Must respect the children's mother, and in most cases, all children must come from the same woman - the woman you are married to.
Exceptions:
1) Anyone who has served in the military is a real man, no matter what.
2) Anyone who has had to overcome a physical disability is a real man.
3) Anyone who cares for another human being who is physically or emotionally disabled is a real man.
Who can't be a REAL MAN:
1) Single men who work only to support themselves.
2) Women. Sorry, but women can't be men - even with surgery.