Who else is reviewing every interaction they ever had with a member of the fairer sex?

xlev2 wrote:

Live your life. Don't say anything to a female co worker you wouldn't say to a male co worker.

This is extraordinarily bad advice... some of the things I say in jest to a male co-worker would get me in serious trouble if they were said to a female.

Notmyrealusername wrote:

xlev2 wrote:

Live your life. Don't say anything to a female co worker you wouldn't say to a male co worker.

This is extraordinarily bad advice... some of the things I say in jest to a male co-worker would get me in serious trouble if they were said to a female.

Exactly. "Dude do you have to dump the whole bottle of cologne on ... you smell like a Bangkok whorehouse" goes over with laughs when a guy wears too much cologne. Not so much for a female.

SJW Princess wrote:

mushroom cut wrote:

There's a difference between "that smells nice" and "that smells hot".

And there's also a difference between "that smells nice" coming from who you'd like it to come from and "that smells nice" coming from some ugly, sweat ridden, still living with mom loser.

I look forward to the day when men should be forced to consider the potential emotional distress they can cause by attempting social interaction with someone they're clearly well beneath. Hopefully the law will also catch up with this type of abuse soon.

0/10

Better be careful. Calling them "the fairer sex" may be deemed sexist and a punishable crime if things keep going the way they are.

Beverage Joe wrote:

Seriously, I’m going back over everything I did either at work or after work or just casually in bars somewhere. I think I had my hand on someone’s right arm one time.

Why would anyone care. If some girl accused you it would not make it into the media so why worry.

xlev2 wrote:

On a serious note, everybody please take note of the fact that almost all of the current allegations and incidents occur in situations where there was a clear imbalance of power. Touching someone's arm (or more) in a bar is a totally different situation, since by virtue of being in that setting parties are at risk (it's an implied risk of being in that environment. Don't say that's called blaming the victim)

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HowFarWillItGo? wrote:

Better be careful. Calling them "the fairer sex" may be deemed sexist and a punishable crime if things keep going the way they are.

What does 'fairer sex' mean? I never understood the saying, always thought it might be leftover British slang?

Stoopid Smith wrote:

garbage

I thought you understood no one likes you here, Stoopid. Please go away.

HowFarWillItGo? wrote:

Better be careful. Calling them "the fairer sex" may be deemed sexist and a punishable crime if things keep going the way they are.

So how ya gonna hook up with chicks if you can't flirt in the workplace?

That's where like 75% of now married couples met.

In my clueless younger years at temp jobs, I did some dumb stuff with female co-workers that might qualify as harassment. I would hope that they are decent enough to discuss whatever irked them from back in the day and we could discuss it openly. But considering I have no plans of seeking any position of public prominence, I'm not too worried.

CapnPerv wrote:

HowFarWillItGo? wrote:

Better be careful. Calling them "the fairer sex" may be deemed sexist and a punishable crime if things keep going the way they are.

So how ya gonna hook up with chicks if you can't flirt in the workplace?

That's where like 75% of now married couples met.

On a positive note, no one has yet to use the time-honored defense:"she was just asking for it."

truthful tom wrote:

But considering I have no plans of seeking any position of public prominence, I'm not too worried.

You can still get into politics if you want.

Beverage Joe wrote:

truthful tom wrote:

But considering I have no plans of seeking any position of public prominence, I'm not too worried.

You can still get into politics if you want.

Lol, good point. US Congress, here I come!

I always lose count somewhere in the middle while remembering some exploit I’ll never have a chance to best.

Well the answer to that will have to be no. I am real. I have real opinions. If you get the luxury to share yours then I will share mine. If you get the powers that be to get rid of me, then you can have your wish. Until then, it is a no

ughhh go away wrote:

Stoopid Smith wrote:

garbage

I thought you understood no one likes you here, Stoopid. Please go away.

Notmyrealusername wrote:

It was totally awkward because the normal thing would have been to say, " Hey, your new haircut looks good." Not in 2017, never... I would have expected comments if I wore a new suit or new shoes, grew a beard or got a new haircut

Huh? What has happened in 2017 where complimenting a woman is on par with mentioning the holocaust? I must have missed something.

becareful out there

Its a fine balance

When Paglia and Jordan Peterson were talking recently, Youtube, she said that Feminists are now talking about ‘continual consent ‘

That at the drop of a hat a woman can say No

Paglia and Peterson agree that relationship building isnt so mechanical and wary and unnerving

Its subtle

Prior many cultures did and still do have arranged marriages, Look at the garbage thats being created without Arranged marriages

But, but today mostly its subtle consensual interactions where the people are serious, vulnerable, humble and looking to marry and have kids.

That is, where Feminism hasnt wreck a womans mind

Now, the fine line is ‘dont hate women’ but also ‘dont think that they are delicate angels

Some of them are vile and rough

Recently a girl told me, “not all girls will back stab you”

Lol

Why is that needed to be spoken?

I could tell you some sick stories about women but I won’t

Becareful out there

Feminist prowl and seek to devour

Looking to Kill, steal and destroy

xlev2 wrote:

On a serious note, everybody please take note of the fact that almost all of the current allegations and incidents occur in situations where there was a clear imbalance of power.

Live your life. Don't say anything to a female co worker you wouldn't say to a male co worker.

Says the armchair Philosopher

Look up the Mass or Conn kid that was kicked out of College because a girl cried rape.

His life destroy

She is probably a loose girl theses days, loose with men but no longer claiming rape.

That guy, sadly, is probably now Incel or MGTOW

Countless stories like this.

Also, my co-worker, she confessed to me that she threatened another male co-worker

“Ill tell them that you touched my t*tty.”

A lie

All bc he asked her to do a task

He hasnt spoken to her since