jamin wrote:
A large fraction of the guys a couple pledge classes above mine are in their early 30s and still getting blacked out at tailgate parties every weekend. Honestly, my house consisted of druggie burnouts, but, from what I can tell, every house is like that, with the only difference being where they fall on the nerd or jock spectrum.
Every fraternity recruiter will say "we work hard and we play hard," but it's all smoke and mirrors. The truth is that 90% either are full-time drinkers/druggies or full-time focused on their studies. The whole "athletics, smart, successful guy who parties" is this ideal that every fraternity member thinks he meets but really doesn't, however he becomes very good at acting the part, and women who can't see through his B.S. are attracted to him.