In an online dating profile, how do I convey that running is very important to me without coming across as a jerk?

o978 wrote:

Trying to make an online dating profile. I notice that in general, a lot of people will say that they are "very outdoorsy" or "love running/cycling/hiking, etc." but there's a wide range between people who are serious about it and out every day and people who do this once every two weeks. Unfortunately it seems like the latter happens a lot.

I don't want to come across as someone who takes myself too seriously... but I would prefer to date someone who is similarly passionate about something related to fitness. It doesn't have to be running necessarily.

In my profile, how do I come across showing that running is very important to me without looking too one dimensional?

Start your ad with "Tattoed runner..." And then when she asks about it show her your kids tattoed heart. However, don't show it on the first date. Show it on the second date, 'cause I think she wont accept no for an answer by then. But make her see it only near the end of the date, string her along, by then she wont want to end the date and will think your a hilarious guy. Drive her crazy and don't let her have what she wants until you have to.

I wouldn't overemphasize it. Drop hints subtly. It's not the only aspect of your life just one of many facets that makes you, you. If it were me, I'd just make a small list under an about me type section that is simple, short but inherently you. It should give enough info but doesn't lay it all out. For Example:

About Me:

- Photographer

- Graphic Designer

- Web developer

- Sponsored Athlete

- Outdoorsman

- Skis all winter

- Loves New Wave

Then later, post maybe 1 photo of you winning a race OR on the award podium with a big giant cardboard check or some shit. That way it implies you're good at what you do and that it is important to you with out you having to say it and you wont come off as a running nerd that way.

At least thats what I would do if i were you

I think just saying "passionate about running" is enough. I am a female who is passionate about running and those words alone would intrigue me to learn more. Even just "running" filters out a lot of guys. I remember when I met these two guys who were both awesome runners/athletes in general. I ended up being way more attracted to the one who didn't show it off. He would finish top five in big races and you would not even know it whereas the other one was more intense and into his accolades. But I guess there is a different type of girl who are attracted to that, it just isn't me.

philly chick wrote:

I'm a chick also thinking about getting into online dating and also dating someone who is into fitness like I am is a big plus for me. Should I stick to some of the same rules that people have laid out here for a guy?

"Avid runner, enjoys exercise and being outdoors." ? Or should I put more?

Hot sexy babe who likes to run and stay in shape seeks a similar like minded... One sentence is enough. Men dont need to know too many details in the ad, just keep them thinking about that. Already (with that 1st sentence) they are thinking your like the girls in the HardBodies movie, and you must be thin, maybe good looking. A man (even non runner) definitely even run with you if your good looking or thin. Don't worry about that first sentence sounding outlandish, it doesnt matter. Men like the women who know what men want and flaunt it, i.e. act sexy, or even just the subtle way real women can act that they arent even aware about. The "hot sexy babe" can be reworded but make sure you say something about the physical (appearance) otherwise it's non-interesting. We don't want intellectuals we want appearance. You dont have to be smart fortunately.

One of your pictures should be of you finishing a race. If you are wearing racing shorts and a singlet they will see that you are not just a casual jogger.

dating gamer wrote:

philly chick wrote:

I'm a chick also thinking about getting into online dating and also dating someone who is into fitness like I am is a big plus for me. Should I stick to some of the same rules that people have laid out here for a guy?

"Avid runner, enjoys exercise and being outdoors." ? Or should I put more?

"I'm female" should suffice.

Not really. I'm a young female, mid 20's, now that sounds a lot more interesting. I'm an over the hill female oh mid 50s (and btw I like crochet) sounds a lot less interesting.

Agirl wrote:

I had a picture of me standing at the Boston finish line as one of my photos. My now husband (also a runner) said that when he was stalking my pictures, he noticed it was Boston and thought "hmm, she must be a pretty serious runner..." and he was at least interested enough to ask for a date. Make your picture a recognizable running location from a race, whether in your town or another. Any "real" runner who is serious enough will know what it is. You're welcome.

if you look good then a picture is more than enough and you don't need to say anything about how you look. After seeing your picture he just wants to know if your cool or not, or one of those high strung chicks who will drive him crazy.

Sounds like you are hoping to date a fellow runner. Just mention in passing that letsrun is your homepage.

On OkCupid in my "Most private thing you're willing to admit" section, I've put "I sometimes browse Letsrun.com".

So far no luck with someone recognizing what that means or why I would put it in that section. Some messages about how I must be into running (they probably typed in the Letsrun home page). It would be funny if I got messaged with a Letsrun inside joke but nothing yet... I guess there are not that many Letsrunners on online dating?

It has to be running (that they're into), pal. If they're into anything else, they'll be able to throw you around like a rag doll, which could be fun for a while but will get old, the constant emasculation. You need a similarly frail and aerobically advanced partner. So just let it all hang out re: your passion.

On your profile, just say you are an avid runner for x years, and when you are chatting with someone bring up the intensity. For example, if you talk about interests, say "I enjoy running and usually run for x hours per day" or say "x miles per week." She'll get the picture. Or if she asks what you did today you can say you went running for x hours. Part of dating is being honest about yourself. If the other person can't accept that, then you would be unhappy anyway.

Use photoshopped pics of you running with Kipchoge or Bekele.

here's how wrote:

"I'm a serious runner. Most people I know say that I have a better chance of making the Olympic Trials than I do of getting laid."

Fantastic. And the best thing, this would actually get him laid.

The fact is, alot of women are so self concious that they don't want a guy who's in better physical shape than they are. My guess is that most chicks on dating sites are porkers so don't emphasize it til you get a date.

Dude- Listen here: Just put, "Runner" in your interests. Don't ALREADY limit yourself to fish in the sea. I have an absolutely wonderful wife who is my best friend and our relationship is sooooo freaking easy because we get along so well. The longest run of her life is 0.6 miles. She doesn't care about running, she doesn't care what my PRs are, BUT she cares that it makes me happy and we work out times during the week that enable me to run the amount I want without it being an impact on our relationship.

Don't think you NEED someone who is into running or even into fitness as much as you are. My wife likes yoga and eating healthy, and that keeps her fit. Don't assume that because someone is into the same things as you that that is the key to a great relationship, I'd argue that you're better off with someone who has the same values as you but has different hobbies and interests.

Yea on my profile I just said; "when I'm not running, I'm eating" Threw a picture or two of me from races, and a few of me in normal clothes. Called it a day. Got a lot of responses, and now in a relationship for almost a year. She didn't run much prior, but when she saw how happy it made me she tried it and got hooked. She's nowhere as serious as me, but she enjoys it... that's what matters, just be yourself. Don't overthink it, or you'll get left behind.

Except, I think you have to have some similar interest as well, not nessarily in running but other hobbies.

o978 wrote:

What about something like "Running is a big part of my life and I'm out on the roads and trails every day. It's not uncommon for me to be running over 70 miles a week during peak training."

Is that too much?

So you're not that serious. You just run around 65 to 70 minutes in the morning during your peak.

o978 wrote:

What about something like "Running is a big part of my life and I'm out on the roads and trails every day. It's not uncommon for me to be running over 70 miles a week during peak training."

Is that too much?

Way, way too much. "Avid runner, enjoys exercise and being outdoors." per my predictor is enough. You can be more creative somewhere else.

Hey, has anyone tried