Surprise! wrote:
You will be on the hook for child support. You will feel attachment to the child.
Bad idea all around.
This. And to underscore the badness of this idea, ask yourself why it matters with whom she's conceiving if she's going to have no involvement with the father. As others have said, you have no way to know that she won't change her mind later and want child support. She probably has only a vague idea of how big a job she's signing on for. Ask yourself if you want your child being raised by a single parent. There is all sorts of research showing that kids raised in two parent households do better in every measurable aspect of life than those raised by single parents. (Yes, there are many notable exceptions but on a macro scale two parent households are better for kids.) Finally, what's in this for you? You get to score a time or two? You're already doing that with her (though I'd maybe cut that out now if I were you). And you say you're dating others so it would seem you have other opportunities to score. Do you have a single good reason why you'd want to do this, or even a mediocre reason?