I am completely different from everyone else in my family.

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1 year ago 11/01/2022 10:12pm EDT

re: Conundrum

Im 15, and Im going through basically the same thing as them. Except, even my deep personality is different too… im nothing like my family, even genetically. Fast metabolism, skinny, tall. My younger brother is gaining weight badly, lung problems, and outrageously rude and has no anger management. My dad is basically exact same, alcoholic, fox, but - cant keep a date for even 2 weeks without beating them or making them cause suicide(my mom did because of his threats), my grandparents, grandma, dirty minded and boasting about herself, likes to make others feel low about themselves.

basically I should try and sum up by saying, no one in my family is -

Skinny, fit, fast metabolism, family has health issues, a furry, kind, extremely understanding, calm towards anything, patient(extremely too), willing to listen to explanations, good at coding, good at computer stuff(know lots about apple,Samsung,windows,Mac,consoles), and I accept EVERYONE of who they want to be without spreading the word(Unless they choose to).

this guy is no troll, even if hes 28, im going through the same thing and im 15.

1 year ago 11/02/2022 12:19am EDT

re: Wolf the floof

Wolf the floof wrote:
Im 15, and Im going through basically the same thing as them. Except, even my deep personality is different too… im nothing like my family, even genetically. Fast metabolism, skinny, tall. My younger brother is gaining weight badly, lung problems, and outrageously rude and has no anger management. My dad is basically exact same, alcoholic, fox, but - cant keep a date for even 2 weeks without beating them or making them cause suicide(my mom did because of his threats), my grandparents, grandma, dirty minded and boasting about herself, likes to make others feel low about themselves.
basically I should try and sum up by saying, no one in my family is -
Skinny, fit, fast metabolism, family has health issues, a furry, kind, extremely understanding, calm towards anything, patient(extremely too), willing to listen to explanations, good at coding, good at computer stuff(know lots about apple,Samsung,windows,Mac,consoles), and I accept EVERYONE of who they want to be without spreading the word(Unless they choose to).
this guy is no troll, even if hes 28, im going through the same thing and im 15.

Nobody is impressed with the "skinny, fit, fast metabolism" of a fifteen year old. If manage to reproduce, don't be surprised if spawn think you're the old, fat, intolerant, ignorant, loser with health problems, and that he/she has a "deep personality" while been super cool for being into whatever the trendiest perversion is.

You \"Accept EVERYONE,\" so Tolerant wrote:
Wolf the floof wrote:
Im 15, and Im going through basically the same thing as them. Except, even my deep personality is different too… im nothing like my family, even genetically. Fast metabolism, skinny, tall. My younger brother is gaining weight badly, lung problems, and outrageously rude and has no anger management. My dad is basically exact same, alcoholic, fox, but - cant keep a date for even 2 weeks without beating them or making them cause suicide(my mom did because of his threats), my grandparents, grandma, dirty minded and boasting about herself, likes to make others feel low about themselves.
basically I should try and sum up by saying, no one in my family is -
Skinny, fit, fast metabolism, family has health issues, a furry, kind, extremely understanding, calm towards anything, patient(extremely too), willing to listen to explanations, good at coding, good at computer stuff(know lots about apple,Samsung,windows,Mac,consoles), and I accept EVERYONE of who they want to be without spreading the word(Unless they choose to).
this guy is no troll, even if hes 28, im going through the same thing and im 15.
Nobody is impressed with the "skinny, fit, fast metabolism" of a fifteen year old. If manage to reproduce, don't be surprised if spawn think you're the old, fat, intolerant, ignorant, loser with health problems, and that he/she has a "deep personality" while been super cool for being into whatever the trendiest perversion is.

"Skinny, fit, fast metabolism, family has health issues, a furry"

Furry would seem to be the latest and greatest and trendiest perversion.

1 year ago 11/02/2022 11:41am EDT

re: vurryfurry

Yes, I'm confused by the furry comment. And your dad is a fox?

OK, well, anyway... to the original post - I think personally that there is a lot of good advice in this thread but the OP was keen to rebuff it. It seemed like he was very defensive and reading anything that didn't fit in with what he thought, things that were posted in order to try to help, he got angry at. I can understand why he is angry but he shouldn't be angry at the poster who tried to help. Yeah, maybe he didn't get it perfectly right (or maybe he did) but he was trying to help. I can sort of see where these family dynamics are replicated.

OP is different because he's a different person. Genetics and environment are one part of things. They're not everything, I don't think. A lot of families have very different people in them and often it can cause problems.

I guess I'd say to OP that if he's looking for an answer he's asking the wrong question. It doesn't really matter why he's different. He just is. What does finding out why help??

Secondly, and most importantly, what's OP or anyone else in this situation going to do about it?

I think you have a few choices:

- Disassociate from them completely
- Maintain a bit of contact, via phone, text, email but distance yourself in person
- Try to sit down and talk with them about it and change your approach. Say you're their family and you want things to be different. Ask their opinions on it. Obviously they're not happy either. Listen to what they have to say, how they want things to be different and how they think you could go about this. Find something you all like - e.g. going to the park. Do that. It can be anything but you all have to like it. You need to find some common ground.
- If they are sh!!tty people and are not going to change, you can't really do much about that. It's unfortunate but if they don't want to change you can't actually make them. However, they don't sound happy, so here's hoping they do want to change.

I'm aware the OP was six years ago so what I've written above applies to him but to anyone else in this or a similar situation. It is sad when people don't get along. I wish that wasn't the case.

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