rojo wrote:
This is pretty simple. And I don't see how the timing is terrible. You admit you have a flexible job. So stay there and date her.
Match Maker wrote:Life, relationships take compromise and hard work like anything else.
As the poster above points out, relationships require compromise. If you want to do exactly what you want to do your entire life, then you will be single. That's on you. This sounds like a perfect relationship so stick around and see if it works out. You can't be 100% self-centered and be in a relationship.
These are such ancient barn dung old cliches.
Only people who settle for less than the best believe relationships are about compromise.
What that means is that men are supposed to stop wanting their way when their women act like emotional children wanting to use threats of emotional dissonance, or withhold sex, or use whining, nagging, btching, sex withholding etc., emotional retaliation to get their way.
Someone who is truly platinum level compatible is someone who holds the same major core values and you, shares most of the same tastes and opinions, and is not threatened if you think or believe differently, or want to "individuate."
Successful relationships are found by going slow enough to find someone who is compatible, and shares the same major core values, consciously, and the similar tastes and energies.
Successful relationships are about compatibility, and about collaboration and reasonable flexibility, where the relationship is a third entity, equally valued and protected and feed and nurtured by each parther.
Where protecting the relationship is more important than the trivial immature, dysfunctional crap women and men ruin relationships over.
If you are not done with sexual variety, don't get married.
Don't sacrifice your dreams for any woman. Men get more attractive the older and more accomplished they get. Women do not gain value with age, societally.
If you miss this bus, a younger one will come along later, appreciating you more.