Well, I realized shortly after getting married that I'm bi. I half way knew it while growing up, but never let myself believe it. So, that adds a dimension to the cheating part. I've never been with someone of the same sex. Not even during my single days. It's been very close, but I forced myself to back away on all the instances.
What keeps me from cheating?
- I strongly believe in karma. I've seen it happen in married couples I know who have cheated. If I cheat, I'm certain that my car will suddenly break down. I'll get a terrible illness. My bank acct will get hacked. I'll lose my job. Or, worse yet, my spouse will experience the harm & not me.
- My spouse has said more than once that if I cheat, my genitalia will be mutilated, and worse yet, I was provided a vivid detail of how my car would be slowly destroyed in front of my eyes.