If someone is off the market sort to say, is there any reason why they would spend alot of time putting on make-up and selecting an outfit before going out with you in public say to eating dinner or a night out?? I'm not talking like 30 minutes to like decent but spending an hour or so getting prepared. Is it because they are insecure with their looks or they want attention from other men??
Could mean anything but unless you are slob, you don't want to go out looking like one.
I prefer the quick out the door type. They might like the attention from other men but they might do it just because they like how they look.
Are you late or are you just watching TV? How is it impacting you? If they are flirting that is different.
If she gets dolled up to go out with you that is a good sign.
If she gets dolled up to go out with female friends and not you that's a bad sign.
tycobb wrote:
They might like the attention from other men but they might do it just because they like how they look.
Are you late or are you just watching TV? How is it impacting you? If they are flirting that is different.
this is what I was wondering. There is really no reason for someone to spend excessive time looking good unless you expect to get a response from someone else.
And when i hear that women dress up for other women, its really so they can be the prettiest woman in the room if they choose to be so.
Im a girl, and I want to say your GF or so might just want to look good in public for you. and its at the first begining of dating, its quite normal, with time goes by, the time she spends on make up and picking up dress might decrease. girls want others' attention, nothing wrong with it, just as guys even of they have GF, they still sometimes keep looking for new GFs. Get great make up and beautiful dress sometimes just want to be sexy for ourselves. we love that feeling
Cviller Reborn wrote:
girls want others' attention, nothing wrong with it, just as guys even of they have GF, they still sometimes keep looking for new GFs.
Uh, no, that isn't normal. Guys with a girl friend should not "keep looking for new GFs." Likewise, women with a bf should not keep looking for new BFs.
But to answer the OP's question, if she has always spent a lot of time getting ready to go out, I wouldn't put too much thought into it, especially if she is consistent. For example, does she spend just as much time getting ready to go to work as she does to go out with friends as she does to go out with you? If so, definitely not an issue.
It is annoying when girls spend forever getting ready and put on a ton of makeup though. It just shows insecurity, and that can be a real problem in a relationship.
Yes, it's a red flag that she is a slave to the patriarchy.
well yes, they shouldn't but believe me, it happens all the time.
but I agree on what you said if she spends like 20 mins on make up before everything, then just a habit. nothing to concern. I personally only spend 10 mins