Ghroublin wrote:
morris wrote:Nice try but the guy who maintained his high school relationship long distance still wins.
At the risk of revealing my identity, it gets worse: we only had sex twice. She was religious and thought that premarital sex would ruin her (just intercourse, God was fine with everything else). I want to travel back in time and smack some sense into my younger self.
Sorry dude.
Almost everyone thinks high school relationships are the most important thing in the world while they are going on. For some lucky reason (because I usually have zero selfawareness) I could totally view HS relationships objectively and knew none of them were worth maintaining into college. One of the very few things in my life I'm proud of.
My dorm roommate kept his HS gf for several years of college, the first year it was long distance too. After freshman year she transferred to our school and that was actually even worse. He already had his school group of friends, she only had him since she missed out on the dorms and the freshman experience. By Junior year they were breaking up/getting back together every other week. Everyone else was thinking, "this sh!t should have ended in HS."
By senior year they broke up for good and she went on a massive fvck spree as he had been her first and only. He instantly jumped into another long term relationship (he married that one and I believe remains so ten plus years later).
Lesson to you HS kids out there: college is the more unique time in your life. You will never have the sheer volume and range of possibilities in regards to dating at any other point in your life. Do not waste it shackled to some "soulmate" that fate happened to put in the same HS as you.
you'll thank me someday.