My ex-wife is a cat lover, which makes me dislike cats even more.
At one point a few years back there were 18 cats in her house, counting grown ones and kittens. I don't care if you're male or female, gay or straight, that's just f*cked up.
When I would come to pick up the kids for their week with me, the kids would beg to bring a cat or two back with them. Not just no, but HELL no. They don't ask much any more.
As for guys owning cats, to each his own, but it's a pretty gay thing to do. Most normal guys are dog people.
For the record, I have a black lab, a real man's pet.