Some things you'll notice immediately:
1) This thread is 10 years old! This suggests that men have been giving up on Women for 10 years (and not doing a good job at it), have already given up on women, or they never started! There are other possibilities but this summarizes the simplest models
2) Jamin &co (Jamin: I care deeply for your well-being) have been offering the same opinions for ~5-10 years.
I was a senior in HS ~10 years ago: a different time, the only time I spent online was on Letsrun. At my HS, among "weirdo guys", very similar thoughts were offered as half-jokes and half-truths. The clearest way that I can say it is that a friend of mine was a "forever-alone" kinda-guy, and made dumb jokes about Valentine's day being "singles-awareness day". Not coincidentally, this kid was always incredibly horny and got in trouble for some sexual stunts performed uh... in situ. It took a school-wide event, -- Senior Prom, -- to get him to ask anyone out. In a way, I think his way of putting himself out there was making PMS jokes to angry girls, and speaking spanish very well.
What became of said kid? He went to college (and convinced a girl he was Puerto Rican, with his Spanish!) and got a good job. Invited me to a strip club with him after we graduated college. Spends most of his time alone, still; normalled out, but probably still has similar preoccupations.
Another friend of mine, from the same ethnic background, makes jokes about writing breakup texts via ChatGPT, -- he hasn't been in a relationship as long as I've known him. He also jokes about his youtube advertisments (yes! ppo spend enough time on youtube to keep track of patterns in advertisments!) are "vape, grubhub, and dating apps": he just wants to "eat good, smoke good, and occasional git sum wimmen". A third friend wanted to go as Morpheus for halloween, and offer people "the red pill" (this is actually a genuinely funny idea). All I mean to say is The Obvious: Culture is shaped by comedy and tragedy alike. Soon we'll be in a world where AI facilitates not only 'matchmaking', but other aspects of relationships. Sadly, relationships are upwards of 50% 'maintenence' activities (i.e "how was your day", "I hope your meeting went well! :)") that retards could think to automate away.
I still don't know what it means to "give up on women". For centuries there has been a large contingent of men who do not seek women's validation. Most of these men have been normal people who have healthy relationships. Those who "give up on women" were only the ones who were possessed by them to begin with (this is not a rag on women; many men possess women as well). Those who give up on women are trying to fake it 'till they make it, -- but you can't fake the contents of your soul!
The best advice that any young man (or women) receives is "be yourself", which also entails "knowing yourself". It's refreshing to meet someone who "is their-self". Girls and guys with a modicum of social awareness can sniff out a phony. Perhaps the real issue is that many young men no longer know themself....
What has fundamentally changed in the last 10-20 years is the form of "filtering mechanisms". Any teenager on the internet will tell you that "all the good girls are in church"; the kernel of truth to this is that many religious activities are a mechanism to support relationships between young people (think: sleepaway summer camps). The same is equally true of colleges (proximity to young people, clubs, and free time). What's unfortunate is that many young people who are no longer in school, or may have spent too much time on the internet while they were in school, miss out on last century's filters; I'll leave it as an exercise to the reader to guess what form these are now. People rag on online dating for good and bad reasons, but to not recognize a small liberal arts college as (nearly) the same thing is a disservice to....
To understand this, you just have to read Eugene Onegin!