An Open Letter To Suzy Favor Hamilton

do i actually have to read this whole thing?!

improve your writing, and i might give it a shot...

yes, suzy sexual favor hamilton is sick, and

YES SHE DID WRONG...especially considering she had a career, a 7 year old daughter, and a husband...

Strom jr. wrote:

do i actually have to read this whole thing?!

improve your writing, and i might give it a shot...

yes, suzy sexual favor hamilton is sick, and

YES SHE DID WRONG...especially considering she had a career, a 7 year old daughter, and a husband...

No you don't have to read the whole thing, you obviously did not and don't appear mentally competent to understand it anyway.

I am saying she didn't do anything wrong; that she has a personal evolution, that she needed to get out of her marriage and explore those adventures she wanted to experience...

The sickness and judgments are in the society that deigns to judge her.

she has "a personal evolution"

how rich

wtf does that even mean...

she's a part-time hooker with a family

and, yes, i reiterate:

SHE DID DO WRONG

(the fact that you can't comprehend the difference between moral and immoral is symptomatic of vile AMERICAN POP CULTURE i want NO part of)

porn stars and "escorts" are whores, not cool individualists

My open letter to Suzy:

Dear Suzy,

When can you meet? Are your rates still the same?

Strom jr. wrote:

she has "a personal evolution"

how rich

wtf does that even mean...

she's a part-time hooker with a family

and, yes, i reiterate:

SHE DID DO WRONG

(the fact that you can't comprehend the difference between moral and immoral is symptomatic of vile AMERICAN POP CULTURE i want NO part of)

porn stars and "escorts" are whores, not cool individualists

The labels you use to apply to her are yours and this societies.

The has had a personal evolution. Expressed herself in a new realm, one that may be draw shame from people like you, and from others it is just a way to celebrate their sensuality and sexual fantasies. More power too her, she just messed up on the never let them know who you really are thing.

I don't see that what she did was wrong. I think it should be private and legal to the point where the press can't ruin lives because of it.

I know plenty of women who fly their feminine sex freak flag high and explore all those sexual excitements and get that need met and settle down...or some just go into the lifestyle.

Who gets to decide what is wrong? You, your religion?

Well right now I can tell you the names about about 6 sex communes and private play party societies in the bay area.

It is simple, if you don't like it, don't do it.

Leave others to their freedom, and mind your own business.

Yes her daughter could be hurt but that depends on how the family handles it, protects the child from media and mean spirited neighbors etc. There is damage control and planning that will have to be done for that family. But the husband knew she was off on this adventure...and while not approving he tried to understand and be there for her when she got it out of her system (and they some timed do).

And you know, maybe this is the life she wants to lead.

If she was in San Francisco or Paris France or London she could be invited to Elite Sex Parties (google that term and London) these kinds of things are going on all over the world now. She just screwed up in letting her real name get out.

I'll bet you she is going to miss the escapes and adventures real soon. It is likely a part of her taste and style now, her sexual expression and aesthetic....she like all of us ought to be able to express it freely.

Odds are this will get her invited to a higher class of club.

I just hope she doesn't take the Saved by Jesus out. Break the mold and tell the world you wanted to celebrate your sexual fantasies and adventures and that you don't regret it. The only thing you regret is that you should have done it in a way less likely to get out and effect her husband and daughter.

Bay Area? A higher class of club?

ha ha. Is this someone posing as Gabe Jennings?

You're wrong from the get go. She did do something wrong. She cheated on her husband - repeatedly over the course of a year. The fact that he knew about it at some point does not somehow make it right.

Who cares what she did to make money? I for one have no problem with it. I just do not see what is so wrong about it. If this is what she wants to do who are you to stop her.

Sex positive? In this context, that's a lot of crap.

She was married. Did she take vows when she got married? Where I come from, having sex with lots of men other than your husband is called "fornication." It falls outside your vows.

Isn't she an inspirational speaker--somebody who makes a part of her living from addressing groups of young people? How does fornication fit into her program? Isn't is possible that her actions in Vegas compromise her ability--for example--to inspire those young people in her audience who may hew to, oh, I don't know, a more "traditional" conception of marriage?

Sex between consenting unmarried adults is a private matter. When you add in marriage (not just SFH's, but the men she was frolicking with), lots of cash, potential violation of the laws (including tax laws).....

I'd say that you've completely missed the point.

A better writer wrote:

My open letter to Suzy:

Dear Suzy,

When can you meet? Are your rates still the same?

She's giving over 50% off- clearance sale.

Suzy's sickness is that she derives self confidence and self worth through male attention. Unfortunately, she is not alone in her illness. Many women measure themselves against how pleasing they are to men, including men who are complete strangers to her. Through her actions, Suzy continues to propagate the unfair treatment of women as subhuman sex objects by men.

The effects that Suzy's actions will have on her daughter is the real problem here. I don't give a crap about Suzy. I just hope here daughter doesn't turn out as screwed-up as her mother.

And I say that not just because of this recent incident, but all of Suzy's unstable behavior over the years. She only gets away with it because she's attractive. I guarantee that if she was the poor, obese woman I see walking around the grocery store, nobody would rush to defend this woman. I would bet money on it.

crazy person wrote: I just hope here daughter doesn't turn out as screwed-up as her mother.

She will, unfortunately, have the same illness given she is influenced by her mother, her father and the pervasive patriarchy. It takes a strong person (male and female) to rebel against the patriarchy-approved woman behaviors.

and all those men, presumably some who were married, paying for her services were just exploring their sexuality and liberating themselves from oppressive societal expectations.

"How do you write women so well?"

"I think of a man. Then I take away reason, and accountability."

-Melvin Eudall

Ok , book rights , oh yes it will be big , movies rights ( probably HBO ) off the charts... trust me this is far from over, whats her list look like of past customers ? Maybe a few names on the list that are not sitting so comfortable now.

Female celebs that have made it big post scandal lets talk Kim K it took a porno tape to launch her career , Hello Paris Hilton ! We are pretty forgiving as a society. Remember Eliot Spitzer NY DA ( i.e. hookers sting ) , has his own CNN TV show now.

Will she recover ? Can you say TIGER , growl !

You cannot be serious?!

Former Elite From Your Era wrote:

Unfortunately you were born into a society that is one of the most shaming and judgmental about sexuality and especially women's sexuality.

The reason why fundamentalist/shaming moralists also hate evolution is that they are afraid of evolution on a personal scale. It threatens the inflexible codes that define them. SFH is clearly a different person than the one that made those wedding vows two decades ago, but now they are used as a stick to beat her with, along with moralistic guilt around her relationship with her daughter.

I truly hope that she can find the inner strength to find a new path, but I'm afraid that, given her history and need for approval, she won't be "the one" to break much new ground in the double standards of shame and hypocrisy around people's personal lives and sexuality.

I guess she could try moving to somewhere in Europe, if she has the money.

so the one thing we can be sure of regarding this thread is that the op is 'a duck'?

She is a gorgeous women than likes sex, what's wrong with that? My fifty year old wife is hot too, but Suzy is at a different level. Please stay away from the quack doctors. Pick yourself up, make some money on the movie, interview circuit and take care of your daughter.