Expressing disappointment in Webb's performance isn't "bashing" him. Like many people, I was hoping he'd get it together, too. But I still think we have the right to criticize him for his poor performance--especially given the petition to get in the 5k, and because he could still run the 1500, but chose not to. (We "bash" athletes in all the other sports--T&F guys actually have it easy, as Jim Rome doesn't give a sh-t about running.) To see an athlete of his caliber not have the fire necessary to compete with the best, is sad. And if he doesn't have it anymore, I guess it's better that he hangs them up.
The reason we're all so disappointed (justified or not) is because he was America's best distance hope. He was the guy that was going to turn the tables and bring American distance running back to the top. He was the guy we all believed in. And to see him climb so high in 2007 (where he ran the most idiotic 1500m I've ever seen!), to where he is now hurts us all. Our hopes were riding on him, and he didn't come through. Doesn't make us bad for wanting him to do well, and doesn't make him bad for not performing the way we thought he should. It's just the way it is.
That all being said, it's great to see him so happy about fatherhood. Good to know that his happiness isn't totally dependent on running.