Only a 12 year old would even think of geting a girl (in this case an adult woman) a build-a-teddy bear for lovers day. Dump HIM. He has waaay too much growing up to do.
Only a 12 year old would even think of geting a girl (in this case an adult woman) a build-a-teddy bear for lovers day. Dump HIM. He has waaay too much growing up to do.
The dude should have given her some cider. I recommend the Dickens brand. Every real woman loves to have a Dickens Cider.
i agree with the folks who say you should break up with her, because it sounds like she'll be breaking up with you any day now.
I can't believe it either...that you have a gf
There's nothing wrong with the gift. He's probably in college and has pretty much no money. College chicks always have stuffed animals. Good gift. This girl is a biatch though. Dump her.
haha YO wrote:
crushed wrote:I even picked out a plastic rose for the bear to hold.
Can't afford a real rose there champ?
A real rose will whither and die, just like their love...
Damn, that made me gag, oh well, I'll post anyway.
I once had something similar happen. Now I have 2 girlfriends. Thankfully, they don't know about each other yet.
I was also in a similar situation.
A girl gave me a build-a-bear on Valentine's day (freshman yr of college). Except, we had only been dating for a very short time, so it really creeped me out. Needless to say, we never saw each other again (we went to seperate schools).
True story. Build-a-bears are dumb. I would never give one as a gift.
Your girl has honey-colored fur?
A number of you are missing a key point here. The OP is 20 years old and recorded I love you to his girlfriend? Props to her for not being a retard and thinking it was 'cute' or 'sweet.'
Memo to OP: You're 20. Move on. Hook up with other people. Also realize that this girl is probably out of your league and will dump you soon regardless.
I never heard a woman say a diamond is trite nor have I ever heard a woman say "That diamond is too big".
Yes but when its over you will want the diamond back, would you want a teddy bear back?
Not the bear, nor your thoughtfulness, but as I can tell symptom of an underlying relationship issue. When your girl brings discord at a time when such a response is unwarranted look deeper, and beyond the surface, and perhaps you might find where trouble lies. Good luck!
As a general rule including Valentines Day if the gift is advertised on TV it will meet the definition of trite.
Remember no matter how expensive or tricked out they are washers and dryers should no be in the Valentines Day gift pool.
first, she is a bitch. dump her ass now.
second, valentine's day sucks donkey balls, but that is for another thread.
third, you poured your heart into a gift and all you came up with was a build-a-bear?! haaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahahahahahaha you are one pathetic loser. i feel sorry for all your future girlfriends/wives as they realize what a thoughtless dumbass you are.
crushed wrote:
I spent >2 hours in line at Build-A-Bear over the weekend picking out the perfect stuffed animal for her. I chose a soft bear with honey-colored fur and intelligent eyes, just like my sweetheart. I recorded the words "I love you" in my own voice for the sound box that was placed inside the bear along with a silk heart. I even picked out a plastic rose for the bear to hold.
I can't believe how unappreciative she is of my gift.
I hate this holiday.
Duh. The bear should have been eating a beet, not holding a rose.
Not to take down the thought and effort of the OP but...dude...the idea is "cute" in all honesty but from the sounds of what you did is totally f***ing lame. Want to win her heart?
Next time have something delivered to her ... flowers (hint) in class or somewhere where she's in front of other girls. She'll be thrilled beyond belief because all the other catty whores around her will be super jealous. And when you get to the flower shop... go big or go home. None of this 19.99 stuff. Also, no more recording your voice. Sounds retarded to be quite honest. No matter how much you meant it its lame as hell and totally not smooth.
OP:
You made a fatal mistake. You should not have been a cheapo. You should have got her a diamond from Kay's. Remember, every kiss begins with Kay.
Contact us and we can work out a student loan with favorable terms that will enable you to buy you a gift that will have her begging for more.
Sincerely,
Kay Customer Service
I haven't read this whole thread but my advice is first to ditch the girl, she sounds like a hag. Second, if you are so whipped as to get such a wack gift, you are taking this relationship stuff way too seriously. You're setting yourself up for bad treatment. Better to just stick with the lingerie gift. That way you are keeping the relationship about sex and not giving her any "hand". Girls hate too much softness. It is too disorderly for them.
Kay Customer Service wrote:
OP:
You made a fatal mistake. You should not have been a cheapo. You should have got her a diamond from Kay's. Remember, every kiss begins with Kay.
Contact us and we can work out a student loan with favorable terms that will enable you to buy you a gift that will have her begging for more.
Sincerely,
Kay Customer Service
"Every Kiss begins with Kay"
That may be true, but guys want something that ends with K