zip zero nada wrote:
I need help with this as well. Been seeing a girl for almost 3 years now. Started out for the first two years at about 115 pounds. In the past year has swelled up to about 130... :-( Should I just tell her that the fat makes me not really attracted to her and she needs to lose it, or is there a more tactful way?
dude, tell her. Seriously. You are her boyfriend, and though you of course love her for who she is, you are obliged to her not letting herself go. however, if she's like 5'10 and 115 and now she's 130, there's nothing to worry about. but if you feel she's on her way to a fatty, let her know.