you are wrong wrote:
yeah yes duh wrote:Yeah, you were wrong.
When someone is sharing the joy with their engagement, it is not a time to make a joke at their expense.
Your joke was actually a negative comment disguised as a joke.
"There's truth in every jest."
Basically you were an ahole.
See "close relative"... if a close relative can't take a joke they can go fly a kite. There's nothing wrong with what she said.
"it is not a time to make a joke"
That's complete bullshit. If my father can make a joke at his father's funeral, I doubt there's another time that's inappropriate to joke about something. You're too uptight.
No, you are wrong.
Jokes at a funeral, are actually incredibly common, and usually they are a slightly odd, but understandable, way to celebrate the human qualities of the deceased.
Dissing a womans engagement ring is insensitive, callous, risky behavior.
The joke was a negative judgment disguised as a joke.
The real meaning is "we noticed you went your own way and did something creative with your engagement ring, at at least one of us thinks it is a bad choice.
Mrs. M was too hasty to run to share her husbands cynical observation.
You are just another unthinking, callous tool on this site.
The person who said to take the high road always, is correct.
She might as well have said "nice wedding dress, but it makes you look a little fat."