trying to get in touch w/ an ex gf

help please wrote:

again, i do not want to come off as a stalker or anything like that. no, i am not a troll either. i just want to apologize for what i did all those years ago. any help would be appreciated.

It's be cool if she were single, but she's married Stay away

Let it go. Seriously.

You dated the girl 7 years ago which leads me to beleive that you are probably over the age of 25...but you use the abbreviation of "gf". interesting

GOOD GOD MAN, DON'T DO IT!!!!!!

Jeez. what's with you guys?????

She has moved on, as have you. Don't go out of your way to find her and apologize. If you should bump into her in the future, maybe apologize, otherwise let the past be the past.

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DONT DO IT!

When she comes home from work, you should be casually sitting at her kitchen table. When she walks in, give her the surprised "whoa! Crazy running into you here!" as if you had just run into her at the mall. Before she has a chance to say anything, go into how you're lucky to randomly bump into her like this, because you had just been thinking about her (for the past 7 years) and had some things you wanted to talk about. Tell her what was on your mind and then glance at your watch, tell her that you really need to get going, but that maybe you'll bump into her again at some point, and walk off.

What Harry Kooter said, except you should be in the buff. Really leave her with an image to ponder over.

3/10

HK, don't mess with him. He might actually take your advice.

Have you seen the move There's Something about Mary...

it's great, go rent it.

dude looks like a lady.

Write a letter if you have to and leave it alone.

Don't do it. If she is married, then she is over you. It has been 7 years. Move on. Don't bother her. An apology isn't going to do anything except make YOU feel less guilty. Does your "gf" know you cheated? Does your "gf" know you want to contact an ex-girlfriend you once cheated on?

I don't think it is bad if you can find an email address for her through the internet. If you have to go to the extent of calling her parents I wouldn't do it then. If she happens to have a myspace, facebook, or something it wouldn't be be bad to just drop her a line and see how she is doing. I wouldn't lead off with saying that you are sorry for cheating on her or whatever.

If you dated her for a while then you obviously played a part in her life as well so an email just to see how she is wouldn't be bad. I wouldn't call since she is married and it might cause problems.

What makes you think she gives a F about you being sorry. Sounds like she has moved on, you should too.

powerpoint it and send it by email...oh and don't go look for her..just email that presentation

Apologize to your present "gf" for being a douchebag then break up with her before you cheat on her too.

I'm willing to bet that you know more than what you say. I bet you know her exact address, her husbands name and all sorts of information.

I would start driving by. She will understand. Your "gf" will understand. And we will understand.

And by saying we will understand, I mean that we all expect you to take that final step off the deep end.