Whats With Guys?

It's springtime and other, better guys are getting laid like crazy. Since Letsrun guys aren't getting laid, they relieve their impotent frustrations by complaining about women. We obviously must be really dumb if we don't want to sleep with the winners at Letsrun.

***

85K a year 6 years out of college isn't that great. Too bad it was the most compelling thing you had to say for yourself.

6 months I mean.

yetanotherchick wrote:

It's springtime and other, better guys are getting laid like crazy. Since Letsrun guys aren't getting laid, they relieve their impotent frustrations by complaining about women. We obviously must be really dumb if we don't want to sleep with the winners at Letsrun.

***

85K a year 6 years out of college isn't that great. Too bad it was the most compelling thing you had to say for yourself.

Good insight yetanotherchick, I agree. ( though I meant 6 mo. out of college ). I think I'll go kill myself now (joke). I mean, I think about it and yes, I realize, I wasted MANY years at school, and graduate school studying (and running). I purposely avoided the social aspect of university life because my future career was more important than present fun. I am a very well adjusted professional, but less so on the personal level. In essence, I busted my ass to get where I am today. I look good, I dress good, I am very personable, with yes a hint of social awkwardness, but is it because of that that I need to "lower my standards". I didn't mean any disrespect with the FAT or FOB comments, but why it is that they seem more attractive to me, whereas the average looking, girl next door, whom I see myself marrying and having kids, has absolutely NO interest in me.

This time of year its easy to get laid. The flowers are opening all over campuses around the c***ry. Stake your claim !!

the reason why the ugs or the fat girls or the women straight off the boat are into you is because you have social value for them. let's face it, an ug or a fat girl will go for anything really because they cant do any better and they probably dont get laid at all. the reason why women of the boat are into you is because if they align with you they dont have to go back to their homeland and they can stay with you. maybe they dont like where they've come from and want to align with you so you can protect them from going back to their country. you knew that already tho. the reason you're not getting any women you're into after you is because, like you said, you have "a hint of social awkwardness" women pick up on your social awkwardness very quickly, without even talking to you they have a ton of ways of judging you by your posture, body language, do you smile when you approach them, do you wear proper fitting clothes, are you well groomed, do you have other women around you?????? women are alot more socialized then men, they need to be in order to keep themselves safe from getting involved with the creepers. yeah you've got money, but can you protect her? are other women hanging out with you and having fun, and are you the leader of your group?

Girls wearing hats, especially with your cute pony tail hanging out the back is hot.

Wearing a hat in the gym is not. Even with the pony tail.

All I know it must suck to be you if you make 85k and can't get laid or find a hottie.

I make 6 figures have high standards and not only do I have a hot girlfriend but I have a hottie on the side who I can call and get laid anytime I want. Both are smokin hot and you can't even get a piece of ass for the night. What a loser.

My only problem is keeping a balance between them.

All I know wrote:

All I know it must suck to be you if you make 85k and can't get laid or find a hottie.

I make 6 figures have high standards and not only do I have a hot girlfriend but I have a hottie on the side who I can call and get laid anytime I want. Both are smokin hot and you can't even get a piece of ass for the night. What a loser.

My only problem is keeping a balance between them.

Yes, absolutely, I feel like a loser because I am a good looking, stable, in shape, am more personable/social than average, but can't get laid, and CANNOT get laid (at least with women that don't repulse me). Anyhow, your comments dont represent that majority of men of LRC, so I'll have to ignore you..

If you havin' girl problems I feel bad for you son... I've got 99 Problems but a bitch aint one.

yetanotherchick wrote:

It's springtime and other, better guys are getting laid like crazy. Since Letsrun guys aren't getting laid, they relieve their impotent frustrations by complaining about women. We obviously must be really dumb if we don't want to sleep with the winners at Letsrun.

***

85K a year 6 years out of college isn't that great. Too bad it was the most compelling thing you had to say for yourself.

85K a year just 6 months out of college isn't enough for you yetanotherchick? Spoken like a classic gold-digging bitch. I suppose if 'some dude' was already making $500K a year he'd be good enough for you.

Some dude, do not fret. The right woman is out there for you. You just need to be careful navigating the minefield of materialistic, social-climbing wenches as your professional career takes off.

You seem like a good guy although kind of uptight, despite your previous comments. (I mean, come on, it's not like I want a bunch of fat guys hitting on me either.)

You probably noticed at college that a lot of the quality girls there were also getting good degrees, so they don't need your money and aren't overly impressed with your career. Yes women are looking for someone who is financially stable, but not as a provider, they want someone who's also supportive of their own career and interests, and who'll be willing to make sacrifices with helping raise children. Working 80 hrs/week and vaguely acknowledging the tiny people in your house who you only really see on the weekends and hand back to your wife as soon as they start to cry is just not acceptable to the girl next door anymore, who has her own life.

Make real friends of both genders without always thinking about what's in it for your dating life. You don't have to be the leader of your group, but be someone who draws people in instead of pushing them away. Women are attracted to guys who are out having fun in the company of their true friends, potential new friends are attracted to that too. Get involved in activities where you know you'll meet a lot of people, don't be afraid to talk to people. Bars aren't places where you meet a lot of people unless you're naturally outgoing or willing to get very drunk. Hiking groups, volunteer groups, the local running club, anywhere you're doing an actual activity is better.

Don't be ridiculous. I would not want to date a guy who was making $500K a year, or any amount significantly more than what I make (which is more than sufficient for my lifestyle).

It's just not enough to be bragging about if one thinks that's the way he's going to attract women.

yetanotherchick wrote:

Don't be ridiculous. I would not want to date a guy who was making $500K a year, or any amount significantly more than what I make (which is more than sufficient for my lifestyle).

It's just not enough to be bragging about if one thinks that's the way he's going to attract women.

you are retarded, you know you just want money.

for the most part yetanotherchick is right but just remember what a woman says she wants and what she responds to are two totally different things, and yes she is right you dont necessarily need to be the leader of your group, just as long as you're part of a strong social circle, look at scott baio's buddy there who's kind of a bum but he gets women cause he's part of baio's social circle...same with roadies who do work for rockstars, these guys get laid like crazy because they're with the band sorta speak...just align with people who have high social value. she's also wrong in the fact that you can meet women at bars and clubs while being completely sober, you just need something better to say than "hi what's your name?" or "hey i really like your shoes" and dont ever offer to buy a woman a drink, let her buy you the drinks hahahahahah...

for the most part yetanotherchick is right but just remember what a woman says she wants and what she responds to are two totally different things, and yes she is right you dont necessarily need to be the leader of your group, just as long as you're part of a strong social circle, look at scott baio's buddy there who's kind of a bum but he gets women cause he's part of baio's social circle...same with roadies who do work for rockstars, these guys get laid like crazy because they're with the band sorta speak...just align with people who have high social value. she's also wrong in the fact that you can meet women at bars and clubs while being completely sober, you just need something better to say than "hi what's your name?" or "hey i really like your shoes" and dont ever offer to buy a woman a drink, let her buy you the drinks hahahahahah...

It also doesn't hurt to be hung like a horse. Some say size doesn't matter. This is only said by guys who are small or girls stuck with something small!

this is one of the dumbest threads ive ever read on letsrun

What's a guy to do to help himself become less socially awkward?

well, what specifically makes you socially awkward? do you stutter? do you have a lisp? do you slouch? do you walk with your head down? do you ever smile? can you look people in the eye when you talk to them?