The one thing that makes men the most attractive to women

Spinal Tap That wrote:

Living in the Past wrote:

Or maybe women find something inherently "cool" about a guy being on stage. If he appears confident yet sensitive and can wear tight jeans, then women are all over him.

What's wrong with being sexy??

The question is whether musicians are sexy simply because they're passionate about playing or whether they're sexy because it's cool to be on stage.

yetanotherchick wrote:

This is completely true. Not only will your pursuing of your interests attract women and friends with similar tastes, but it will weed out women who don't have compatible interests and also weed out women who just want attention and don't have a life of their own. If you've changed yourself and the things you normally do to attract a woman, you'll both end up disappointed.

Am I the only one here who thinks that TxRunnerGirl and yetanotherchick are one in the same person? Or is it that any self respecting woman that had given the site a chance has been weeded out years ago?

My guess is that the HoJo's have hired her to pose as numerous chicks in a desparte effort to boost their demographics. It turns out that catering to poor, repressed, young, male distance runners isn't the most affluent target market.

soccer fan wrote:

I also throw self-like in there as well.

Most Letsrunners throw in a session of "self-like" at least once a day, and it still does them no good with women.

RE: "Very true. All the women I have dated (including the wife) have come from times when I just stopped looking so damn hard and put energy into other things I like to do. I have always thought this is why after you get a woman (and are thus, not trying at the moment) you find that a lot of women are attracted to you."

Does this work for affairs too? Despite the fact that I'm attentive, patient, a good father, a good provider, diligent around the house and at least semi-romantic, my wife is frigid to the point of my utter frustration. (Thank goodness for long runs or I'd be stressed to the nth degree!) I'd like to have an affair but I'm not going to go looking for one.

Mortimer wrote:

RE: "Very true. All the women I have dated (including the wife) have come from times when I just stopped looking so damn hard and put energy into other things I like to do. I have always thought this is why after you get a woman (and are thus, not trying at the moment) you find that a lot of women are attracted to you."

Does this work for affairs too? Despite the fact that I'm attentive, patient, a good father, a good provider, diligent around the house and at least semi-romantic, my wife is frigid to the point of my utter frustration. (Thank goodness for long runs or I'd be stressed to the nth degree!) I'd like to have an affair but I'm not going to go looking for one.

Looks like somebody should have read the post-nuptial shut off thread...

So, is that a "no?"

Maybe it would work, but this works in my experience only when I have no real desire for a woman. You have the desire, but if you can fake it well enough, it should work. On the other hand, you sound kinda skeezy. So maybe not

[quote]800-runna wrote:

Incredible insight. It never occurred to me that women are attracted to what they are attracted to.

Thanks bro.

[quote]nyc wrote:

here you go "bro"

http://www.intmath.com/Numbers/mathOfBeauty.php

attraction is clearly defined.

Ummmmm wrote:

yetanotherchick wrote:

This is completely true. Not only will your pursuing of your interests attract women and friends with similar tastes, but it will weed out women who don't have compatible interests and also weed out women who just want attention and don't have a life of their own. If you've changed yourself and the things you normally do to attract a woman, you'll both end up disappointed.

Am I the only one here who thinks that TxRunnerGirl and yetanotherchick are one in the same person? Or is it that any self respecting woman that had given the site a chance has been weeded out years ago?

My guess is that the HoJo's have hired her to pose as numerous chicks in a desparte effort to boost their demographics. It turns out that catering to poor, repressed, young, male distance runners isn't the most affluent target market.

How dare you accuse me of secretly working for the brojos. Now hush and drink your Accelerade like a good little boy.

Women of today are gold diggers who are attracted to money (and lots of it) and power. Everything else is details.

Heh, and the women of yesteryear flocked to the weakest specimens in the tribe?

Doesn't it always work that way? Maybe it's because when you want something too much, it doesn't happen because the right energy gets blocked. Or if it does happen, the energy it takes is too exhausting to be worth it.

It seems to be the same with running for me. In order for me to run well, a part of me has to not care about the outcome at all.

And about attractive men, I agree with TXrunner. Funny and relaxed and have a good view of me have worked well.

Mortimer wrote:

RE: "Very true. All the women I have dated (including the wife) have come from times when I just stopped looking so damn hard and put energy into other things I like to do. I have always thought this is why after you get a woman (and are thus, not trying at the moment) you find that a lot of women are attracted to you."

Does this work for affairs too? Despite the fact that I'm attentive, patient, a good father, a good provider, diligent around the house and at least semi-romantic, my wife is frigid to the point of my utter frustration. (Thank goodness for long runs or I'd be stressed to the nth degree!) I'd like to have an affair but I'm not going to go looking for one.

You just described me...wasn't looking for it , but i'm currently involved in an affair, eight months, still going strong, but it's mentally and physically tough. Try to avoid it.

same here. told this one chick i know 9 months ago I am currently " not interested in a relationship", just want to focus on my career etc... and was actually very honest about it.

here are the stages she went through after telling her:

stage one: frustrated crying on the phone.

stage two: ignorance (on both parts) for about a week

stage three: she calls

stage four: "it's okay, let's be friends- type thing

stage five: occasional hook ups ( initiated clearly by her)

return to stage one.

But I agree, this is all mentally and physically demanding. Tried to get out of it a few times, but she's hot.... what can I do?

yep wrote:

Tried to get out of it a few times, but she's hot.... what can I do?

You men are so simple....

People who say "could care less" instead of the correct "COULDN'T care less".

It's been said so many times before, but if you COULD care less that means you care to some extent.

Research has found females are attracted to good providers and will pass good genes to future children

1) money (yes its true)

2) position of power

3) men who are good with kids and interested in kids

4) healthy, robust

yep wrote:

same here. told this one chick i know 9 months ago I am currently " not interested in a relationship", just want to focus on my career etc... and was actually very honest about it.

here are the stages she went through after telling her:

stage one: frustrated crying on the phone.

stage two: ignorance (on both parts) for about a week

stage three: she calls

stage four: "it's okay, let's be friends- type thing

stage five: occasional hook ups ( initiated clearly by her)

return to stage one.

But I agree, this is all mentally and physically demanding. Tried to get out of it a few times, but she's hot.... what can I do?

I understand, I tried to end it 4 times, but the next day we hooked up again, she doesn't want to let go, I think i'm addicted, what can I say? I'm 42 and she just turned 25, she's incredibly beautiful...I seriously think I've become addicted and will need help.