Ex co-worker wants to have a fling-Should I?

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17 years ago 04/09/2007 2:25pm EDT

An ex-worker (she works somewhere else now)who was on our softabll team and I started some flirting over email. Not work email.

It has now gotten to the point where she has come out and said she wants to meet me at noon for a quickie.

We are both married. My wife isn\'t paying much attention to me at home and, from what she is telling me, the same is going on with her.

I think this girl is hot and I was turned on by her the first day I say her. I wouldn\'t consider anything like this but my wife isn\'t helping out and a man does have needs.

OK, advice here.

17 years ago 04/09/2007 2:31pm EDT

re: BobCarte

Get divorced or stop thinking about cheating.

17 years ago 04/09/2007 2:33pm EDT

re: BobCarte

If you do, you are opening the flood gates to a slippery slope that will end in nothing but 'bad things' for everyone involved. If your marriage is dead and you don't want to save it; get a divorce; then stay single and play the field for the next 5 years. I would NOT meet her as long as you're still married.

ps. my friend lost his job when the husband of the women he 'met' called his HR dept. to complain about his behavior....these kind of things 'have legs' that reach farther than you can now, even realize.

17 years ago 04/09/2007 2:33pm EDT

re: BobCarte

Sorry, someone started this same troll thread a couple of weeks ago. And there was another a couple of months before that.

Can't you at least be original? Like another poster said, if you are going to be a troll, at least show some pride in your work.

17 years ago 04/09/2007 2:44pm EDT

re: BobCarte

grow some balls - well you will need to when her hubbie relieves you of them.

17 years ago 04/09/2007 2:51pm EDT

re: BobCarte

If a woman is taking care of her man, he won't have these thoughts.

I say do it. It's her fault you're thinking about doing this anyway. If she finds out, maybe it will wake her up.

17 years ago 04/09/2007 7:34pm EDT

re: Do it.

17 years ago 04/09/2007 7:48pm EDT

re: BobCarte

So have you thought about what happens when your wife finds out??? saying she does and then decided she wants to leave you are you going to be cool with it? You dont think you won't beg her back like a little bitch? hopefully she wouldnt take you back.....But if she did then what? your relationship will be f***ed up for the next 2 years with her trying to get over it which might result in her cheating on you.....Eye for an eye makes some people feel better.........

Accidentally cheating when getting caught up in a moment is one thing but thinking and planning it before.........thats just stupid.......

17 years ago 04/09/2007 7:54pm EDT

re: Sigh...

Sigh... wrote:
Sorry, someone started this same troll thread a couple of weeks ago. And there was another a couple of months before that.
Can't you at least be original? Like another poster said, if you are going to be a troll, at least show some pride in your work.

Yep, also a person that was really going to have an affair wouldn't use Bob Carte as their username.

17 years ago 04/09/2007 7:56pm EDT

re: been there, done that...

been there, done that... wrote:
you are opening the flood gates to a slippery slope

Mixing metaphors like that is worse than adultery.

17 years ago 04/09/2007 7:58pm EDT

re: joe mcblow

joe mcblow wrote:
been there, done that... wrote:
you are opening the flood gates to a slippery slope
Mixing metaphors like that is worse than adultery.

spot on.

17 years ago 04/10/2007 12:47pm EDT

re: turn right

are there any kids involved?

17 years ago 04/10/2007 12:50pm EDT

re: ?????

????? wrote:
are there any kids involved?

You pedophile!

17 years ago 04/10/2007 12:58pm EDT

re: matlock

matlock wrote:
????? wrote:
are there any kids involved?
You pedophile!

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

17 years ago 04/10/2007 6:44pm EDT

re: Another

depends what she is like in the sack.... keep it going for as long as you can!

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