This thread has made me consider my own situation. I have always believed that if I kept my husband serviced in the bedroom, he would have no reason to stray or pay for sex outside our marriage. I believe I have made considerable effort to keep him happy in this regard. When he shares his fantasies about other women I indulge him with role playing. I have been masquerading as a particular old girlfriend of his for a number of years now. I always considered this activity as fun and didn't see it as terribly degrading until recently, when I learned he had actually been having an affair with this woman, as well as several others from work and various activities he is involved in.
I took the post-nuptial warnings seriously and did my job but he is still looking for sex from someone else every time he walks out the door. What did I do wrong? Is he just using me? Do other men ask their wives to do this kind of stuff? I am so confused and feel like a low-paid, underappreciated whore.