I'm bi and my gf and I often have a guy join us, you know sometimes toys just don't replace the real thing. Our only rule is no one-on-ones with guys. If a guy is involved then we both must be too.
This is a true story. I had a big crush on this soccer player in college. I really thought she was cute and got up the courage to talk with her one day. So I cold approached her and we exchanged numbers. We went out with a big group of her friends and I ended up getting a little action at the end of the night.
We agreed to meet a couple days later and she told me she was bi. And that was kind of the end of things. I tracked her socials for a bit (we became FB friends) and noted that she was definitely more into women than men, as all her relationships were strictly with women post us meeting.
In fact, when I met her and her friends that first night, in retrospect I could tell her friends were really puzzled as to why her and I were flirting. I’m sure I’ll get flamed for this, but I think most bisexuals have a preference towards one sex and most are bi-curious.
Didnt Kinsey share that you are only really turned on by one sex?
I'd say that most women are a little way along the spectrum to being bi, moreso than most men anyway. They are comfortable with each other in ways that go way past what men would do. Not to say that they will all be scissoring and going ass-to-ass with double enders.
I'd say that most women are a little way along the spectrum to being bi, moreso than most men anyway. They are comfortable with each other in ways that go way past what men would do. Not to say that they will all be scissoring and going ass-to-ass with double enders.
It just seems that way because of culturally learned homophobia among American males. In other parts of the world, men are much more comfortable with casual male to male contact, even in some countries that might actually persecute gays. The actual differences between men and women’s sexuality is much smaller.
“Surveys in Western cultures find, on average, that about 93% of men and 87% of women identify as completely heterosexual, 4% of men and 10% of women as mostly heterosexual, 0.5% of men and 1% of women as evenly bisexual, 0.5% of men and 0.5% of women as mostly homosexual, and 2% of men and 0.5% of women as completely homosexual.”