That means they decided to suck the D. An adult made an adult decision, albeit an embarrassing and bad one.
Let's make the scenario something not sexual, what if the coach asked them to commit a crime? I take the same stance, I would tell the coach to F off, and I'd expect a woman to do the same (unless they were just down to commit a crime.)
Women are not children. I expect women to make the same decision as a man would if placed in the same situation.
You're not thinking straight. Even in your crime scenario, the coach should be punished.
Are you cool with a coach who openly says "whoever sucks the D gets a scholarship"? Or one who says "whoever steals 10 iphones from Best Buy and gives them to me gets a scholarship"?
No, at that point you make a decision as an adult, to report him or not, or you comply. The hard one is to report him, the passive one is not do it but not report it, and the wrong thing to do is to comply (unless you want to have sexual relations with him.)
The thing that bothers me about this thread is that no one is actually talking about Sesar. This guy is absolutely a creep. When I saw this on the forum, I wasn't surprised in the least. Granted, I'm not too old for Sesar's liking as I've reaching my 30s, but once upon a time he had a sweet spot for me. Any woman reading this knows when your intuition kicks in and says get tf out. That was me with Sesar. As a fellow collegiate coach, I avoided him at all costs at meets and when he would text me at Convention, I would ignore him and then he would whine when he saw me in person. Grade A creep. My heart breaks for these girls who were coerced by him. Horribly gross individual.