Timeless truth here: men are more future oriented, and women are more present-oriented. Women will always be more inclined to want fun, food, stuff, etc NOW and don't really care if you're going to be wealthy 5 years from now. It's just the way they're wired. Even very intelligent women often cannot override this inclination. I am 33 and have always been pretty frugal with the goal of having enough money that I could retire by the time I'm about 40. I don't plan on retiring at 40, but having enough money to know I can do basically whatever I want is very appealing to me, and I don't really care about a lot of the things most people care about anyway. I don't care about owning multiple cars, having a big house, eating out all the time, showing off to others, etc. I live well beneath my means and invest the rest, take a trip abroad about once every other year, and do things like read, run, hike, etc for entertainment. Women basically hate this and truly cannot wrap their heads around it. Even after explaining The Plan to them, they still can't seem to understand why anyone would do anything besides spend all their money right now. It's caused more than one relationship of mine to end.
Another timeless truth/pro tip: never disclose how much money you make or how much wealth you have to a woman. Nothing good will ever come from it. You can imply you're well off, but never ever give a dollar figure.
Best advice I can give on this issue is to focus on yourself, try to date and not be too stingy, but keep in mind that as a man, your #1 always has to be yourself, your career, money, goals, development, growth. A quality woman CAN be your greatest asset, but even then, your own growth has to be #1. Anything else will not be good for you, and it will ultimately not be good for your woman either and will cause her to leave you.