I'm having some trouble deciding between 2 guys at my college, I like them both a lot. One of them is majoring in electrical engineering and plays on the basketball team here (team regularly appears in march madness). He and I have been on a few dates, and they went really well. I could see myself in a long-term relationship with him, and a mutual friend told me that's what he wants. I met the other guy through our college's running club. Friends have told me there are some big red flags--he can be creepy with the underclassmen in the club, he's majoring in theology and has no plans to get a job after college, and is a huge Engels/Pre wannabe. But his 8k is under 26 minutes, so I still want to hook up with him. If I pick the runner, I will probably kill my chances with the basketball player. Should I do it?