How to not cheat on a partner?

mike pence rule

It will always be a challenge. Just remember how good you have it right now with your current girlfriend. The relationship you cultivated and how much she means to you, fond moments etc. Think about how devastated she'll be if she figured out you cheated on her.

to ward off desire, buddhist monks are taught to think of all the unpleasant things about women eg bad breath, defecation and urination, body odor, things like that.

You're destined to cheat. Cheaters are a predictable bunch. That's why their relationships have immense insecurity from both sides. It's hard for most people. Especially since women love to hit on and test men who are taken. They want what "they can't have."

thanks letsrun....

alexmegoscarrots wrote:

I'm currently training for a sub 4 minute mile after quitting my college team and I'm having trouble with this girl I'm dating. I can't seem to keep my eyes off other girls and although I genuinely love and am extremely attracted to my girlfriend, I know I'm going to have to end things with then because I clearly still am wanting to sleep with other girls. What gives? Why do I suddenly want other hot girls badly when I have one already? Will I eventually be satisfied with one person a few years down the road, or will this be a constant battle? I also imagine my testosterone from constant training is making things harder, but any advice is appreciated. I feel like a piece of trash sometimes because my girlfriend would marry me if I asked her.

So, you are a quitter. THAT'S your problem. What else are you going to run away from?

Steve The Addict^^^^^^^------- wrote:

You're destined to cheat. Cheaters are a predictable bunch. That's why their relationships have immense insecurity from both sides. It's hard for most people. Especially since women love to hit on and test men who are taken. They want what "they can't have."

There isn't much difference between a self-absorbed quitter and a cheater as the OP demonstrates.

CrispyChicken wrote:

Steve The Addict^^^^^^^------- wrote:

You're destined to cheat. Cheaters are a predictable bunch. That's why their relationships have immense insecurity from both sides. It's hard for most people. Especially since women love to hit on and test men who are taken. They want what "they can't have."

There isn't much difference between a self-absorbed quitter and a cheater as the OP demonstrates.

Eh, I work my ass off. I work 40+ hours a week and am training really hard. But I just hope eventually I stop feeling attracted to women other than the one I'm dating. Like I could just resist the temptation sure, but then i'm still mentally cheating, and unhappy.

Jesus says cheating in your mind is just as bad as cheating with your body.

Do you want to go to hell?

You may be a sex addict. It's a really difficult thing to deal with. I would recommend setting up a meeting with a counselor to see if that fits. These feelings are not likely to go away and not addressing them will lead to you hurting people you care about.

I apologize if this sounds like I'm trolling - definitely not, just offering sincere advice from personal experience.

sleeplessinseattle12 wrote:

easy, just move to a far left place like seattle, portland or SF where the women wear no makeup and are ugly as sin

you wont be tempted to cheat anymore

I would say it is genuinely very easy for you to stay celibate.

Is your head stuck on a little loop that you managed to turn a conversation about getting laid into owning the Libs?

FFS weakling.

being angry and using insults are two major symptoms of having been owned.

just saying

the letter why wrote:

You may be a sex addict. It's a really difficult thing to deal with. I would recommend setting up a meeting with a counselor to see if that fits. These feelings are not likely to go away and not addressing them will lead to you hurting people you care about.

I apologize if this sounds like I'm trolling - definitely not, just offering sincere advice from personal experience.

You don't qualify as a sex addict until you've banged a hundred hookers. This kid has a long way to go.

Idk the point of a relationship if you're not going to marry, raise children, etc.

In this context you can meditate on the way cheating will corrode your ability to do any of these things.

Using a religion is probably the most common way. If you do cheat, try to do so with someone outside your life, otherwise, to keep your family intact.

bulwinkle wrote:

the letter why wrote:

You may be a sex addict. It's a really difficult thing to deal with. I would recommend setting up a meeting with a counselor to see if that fits. These feelings are not likely to go away and not addressing them will lead to you hurting people you care about.

I apologize if this sounds like I'm trolling - definitely not, just offering sincere advice from personal experience.

You don't qualify as a sex addict until you've banged a hundred hookers. This kid has a long way to go.

Definite sex addict tendencies tho.

The problem is self resolving, by the time he's cheated on Hot Girl and banged a few not so hot girls, word is going to get round that he's a douchrbag and hot girls will be avoiding him like he's a skunk on fire.