I accidentally asked out the girl I like via group chat. Is there any coming back from this?

Are you suicidal?

the bubble man theme is lit wrote:

never ever write stupid fking walls of text divulging feelings. its effeminate behavior and women are repulsed by it. women are attracted to men who don't give them attention

This

No. The girl would think you're a huge dork.

Get back on group chat and tell her you want to service her

Does she have an LRC account?

Just copy and paste a link to this thread into the group chat.

Yeah, but if you can own that you did this and don't get embarrassed by it, that kind of confidence is appealing to people. Sounds like you were just trying to be honest. This is one of the perils of modern communication that we all run into. Regrettable, sure, but just apologizing to the group and owning it going forward can reveal your character in a good way.

You're definitely not the first one to drunk text something regrettable. There's a whole app just for drunk texts!

If she's weird around you now - f it. It's her loss. You crush 5ks and miles - any girl should be lucky to have a single, fit runner be interested in them. In fact, you should be courting like 3-4 women at the same time and don't put all your eggs into one lady until you're ready to go for home from a long ways out.

What would Greg Brady do? Think like Greg Brady. BE Greg Brady.

Have some balls dude. You were drunk and did something stupid. If they cut you out move on. But dont sit here and pretend it didnt happen. Send the girl an individual text. See if you can get the group admin to help out. Nothing wrong with sexuality but know it sometimes will end badly.

Shrug it off and move on.

At least you didn’t accidentally send a D Pic

docLorna wrote:

hound dawg wrote:

No big deal man, just post on the same group chat

"Whoops, sorry everybody, that was supposed to be a NON-GROUP communication. I'm smacking my forehead here ... kids, don't mix drinking with asking out your crush. Everybody feel free to rip on me whenever you see me next lol.

XXXname, my apologies - that was actually sincere on my part but I blew it like a dummy. I'll try it again, non-drunk and non-publicly so you can shoot me down or maybe possibly hopefully not ;) "

That☝️Is the perfect way to handle it. No other way around it.

Yep. Own your errors. Own your feelings. Generally a good policy, and anything else at this point will likely make things weirder.

Also, think about a strategy to prevent alcohol from messing up your life going forward. You may not be dependent on alcohol, but still abusing it.

Good news! After spending the whole weekend feeling like an a$$ about this and not doing anything else about it for fear that I'd just make things worse, I got a text from her saying "OMG you goofball haha. Wanna grab lunch today? (FYI if you order a drink I'm taking your phone away from you)".

On my way to meet her now!

I might need AA wrote:

Good news! After spending the whole weekend feeling like an a$$ about this and not doing anything else about it for fear that I'd just make things worse, I got a text from her saying "OMG you goofball haha. Wanna grab lunch today? (FYI if you order a drink I'm taking your phone away from you)".

On my way to meet her now!

There we go OP. Now, if I may politely ask again.

Pics?