despite all those diet options wrote:
If I was fat I'd have low self-esteem but I would know, for a fact, that losing weight would raise my self-esteem.
I see these blob people waddling around grocery stores, after parking as close to the store as possible, and realize this is the only walking they do bc it's hard. I just want to yell at them, "It wouldnt be so hard to walk if you didnt eat so much all the time!", but they already know that. Yet they waddle back to their car and have another Coke.
I don't remotely understand the psyche of 2/3 of people.
I agree that “fat acceptance” is basically a dangerous mistake. I agree that obesity is the single greatest health problem in this country.
When I see a morbidly obese grocery shopper looking at the ice cream varieties, I can’t help but be a little disgusted, and I might think something along the lines of “Maybe you shouldn’t eat that?” to put it nicely.
Having said that, I’ve had my own problems with depression, addiction, self discipline, and generally doing things I know are not in my self-interests. I can’t find any moderation in drinking or pot-smoking, which has led me to be depressed, which in turn leads me to more drinking and pot smoking. The same is true for many people with food. There have been times when I wasn’t running and my diet became very poor, replete with nasty binges; I’m lucky that it’s very hard for me to put on weight, and that distance running is another thing I’ve struggled to do in moderation.
So, while encouraging, even accepting obesity is a real problem, I find my view of those unfortunate people is somewhere between pity and empathy.
“Remember when you’re out there trying to heal the sick, that you must always first forgive them.”