A little worried wrote:
HM guy wrote:
You should move out, call the ROTC about this guy
I'm very reluctant to do that because apparently if the Navy finds out he has any kind of mental healthy issue he will be discharged and have to pay back the tens of thousands of dollars they have paid towards his education. I don't want to duck up his life. I realize that is better than him offing himself or something worse, but it's hard for me gauge just how serious this is. The potential for it being very bad is there, but there's no clear sign suggesting that he definitely or probably will have a break of some kind.
I do appreciate the input, everyone.
You're right actually, I wasn't aware that the ROTC would take such action, and I wouldn't have suggested this had I known. It was remiss of me to suggest anything without research, especially on this type of topic, so I apologize for that.
The intent of my advice was more broad:
1: Make sure you are safe. The most obvious way of doing this, as I said, is to move out.
2: Make sure someone knows about this guy, who is trained about what to do in such situations. The ROTC is a bad suggestion due to the consequences, but is there a college counselor or someone you can call?
I wish both you and him the best with this.