Breaking up with gf tomorrow...should i ask for ring back?

What's a promise ring?

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Trevis99 wrote:

Love her, but its unhealthy relationship. I bought her a 4.5k dollars promise ring 2 weeks ago or so. Is it right for me to ask for it back? What happens in these situations? I also need the key she has tomy appt.

what to do?

You bought her a 4.5k ring two weeks before deciding to dump her? Right you did.

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I would not ask for the ring or key tomorrow. Do the breakup and if she volunteers it then take it. Otherwise wait a week or so after and ask for your stuff.

Tell her the ring looks a little loose and you’re gonna by to get it resized for her. With the proceeds, you can afford to change your locks.

You need to stop talking as you are talking. It was an engagement ring. Engagement ring given and no marriage occurs, contract obligations were not met. You may have a case for an engagement ring.

Trevis99 wrote:

I bought her a 4.5k dollars promise ring 2 weeks ago or so.

That was a very stupid thing to do.

No, you're not getting it back.

How do you go from buying someone a 4.5k ring to dumping them in the span of two weeks

$4,500 is far less than what you’ll pay for knocking her up...be thankful your losses are capped

How much do you need the 4.5k? If you can afford to consider this an expensive lesson I’d maybe go that route. It’s hard to know what you mean by “unhealthy”, but it sounds like the volatility exists on both your parts (two weeks from ring to dump??) and it may be better to avoid the turmoil if you can spare the money. Of course, maybe she won’t want to keep it. I sure wouldn’t.

You would be lucky to get $300 - 400 back on a buy back.

You don't need that engagement ring anymore. All you need is self-love. After that, your Pure Hate levels will rise tenfold. However if you go back to the breakup phase and start begging her to come back, your Pure Hate will disappear permanently.

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Madoff wrote:

$4,500 is far less than what you’ll pay for knocking her up...be thankful your losses are capped

This. You weren't thinkin properly when ring was bought. Let it be a lesson and make better decisions moving forward

Ask for it back and get a refund.

Nah just let her keep the damn ring.

Let her keep your stupid little ring. You’re gonna hurt her enough, get your keys back but if you want her to think of u (a little better), just let her keep that ring, you cheapo!

you should ask for the ring back . she will enjoy laughing in your face and taunting you with it for many years to come.

I am more of a surprised about how you would have gone from buying a 4.5k ring to dumping her in a span of two weeks? Also you called this love but sounds like you really don't know what's love or you wouldn't throw these words around

+1 Or say you want to add to it. All's fair in Love and War!