My wife is bipolar. Even with medication, she has violent mood swings. She’s also tried to commit suicide several times. I’ve taken loaded guns (her guns I didn’t know she had), pills, knives and ropes out of her hands and off her neck.
I’ve been hit. Kicked. Things thrown at me. Property damaged. My child has been yelled at and called horrible names. I walk on egg shells around her because I never know what’s going to set her off.
She exploded on me in a public place recently. I’ve learned to audio when she explodes, when I can do it without her noticing (not a violation of law in this state). During her outburst which involved hitting me and denying my car, she told someone to call the police because I was hitting her. I don’t lift a finger toward her ever, except to stop her from killing herself. Fortunately, the audio was enough to convince the officers that there was no evidence to support her lie.
I have been supportive of her and standing by her while she gets help, but the violence toward me and possibly my child, plus her now lying about something as serious as domestic violence, makes me feel like I need to get out.
Please offer your suggestions.