Over the years did a lot of things with my GFs that I would not have done otherwise but never pretended to like them if I did not. Same can be said for the women in my life.
Getting those 5.7 a year is about being a good date/boyfriend/husband.
As a young kid I had a long stint bedbound with a leg thing. My Grandma taught me to knit . I go on vacation and knit by the resort beach/pool bar. No guy ever struck up a conversation with me by asking "What are you knitting?" but I do not believe I've ever gone for more than a half hour before some woman came up to me and started a conversation. I get to tell a heartwarming story about my dear old Grandma teaching me and my HS gf at my bedside. a
A lot better than
Hi there! what'syourname?comehereoften?whatdoyoudo?wheredoyoulive?what'syoursign?areyousingle?. . ."