Beevie wrote:
There are studies that show that contemplating revenge can be cathartic, but carrying it out is psychologically damaging.
"He who seeks revenge should remember to dig two graves"
So, unless there's a big chick and little chick like in Zombieland, what it means is 'let it go.'
Something to contemplate.
Your best revenge is your success. Why endanger that with risky games?
suzzy qqq wrote:
I was in a similar situation.
Someone working at a lower level was saying slanderous things about me because she was jealous of me and my position.
I was so busy working on my career, I just ignored her, and I got exactly where I wanted to be professionally..
She on the other hand, who always talked about getting married, ending up having a child out of wedlock. She is still not married.
Now that I am not that busy any more, I do think about what she said. It bothers me.
Even though it was past the statue of limitations, I got an attorney and he wrote a letter to her. I was able to itemized everything she said about me. It was many years later, but I am glad I did. It was more of a warning. I said I continued to hear these things and if I hear anything again, I will sue her.
I know what the OP is going through. It is hard to let go.
All statues are pretty limited.
I really hope the OP is a troll. It's sad people get so caught up in all this pettiness. By engaging with this former boss, you are lowering to her level.
Forgive and forget. Till you can do that you cannot really be successful like you say. When you learn to forgive you will have clean karma and really be successful and can move on. Is this person really worth your time and aggravation..? Its called growing up in my generation. When your dad said grow up now you might understand what he meant. THEY AREN'T WORTH IT!
She also had a child with Whitlock
If you have rock solid evidence on which to take legal action against her AND you feel a moral obligation to prevent her doing the same to others, simply execute legal action. Otherwise, you need to let it go. Wrestling with pigs only gets you dirty.
Pics?
Harboring seeds of bitterness is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies.
Feel free to write that down.
Beevie wrote:
There are studies that show that contemplating revenge can be cathartic, but carrying it out is psychologically damaging.
"He who seeks revenge should remember to dig two graves"
So, unless there's a big chick and little chick like in Zombieland, what it means is 'let it go.'
Link re these chicks?
Oldie wrote:
Forgive and forget. Till you can do that you cannot really be successful like you say. When you learn to forgive you will have clean karma and really be successful and can move on. Is this person really worth your time and aggravation..? Its called growing up in my generation. When your dad said grow up now you might understand what he meant. THEY AREN'T WORTH IT!
I have forgave her, but I still think it about it a lot. I have to figure out a way to get it out of my head.
Your right, she is not worth my time.
secret assassin wrote:
I had a work situation a few years back that was so crazy as to be unbelievable to most people. It really messed me up psychologically at the time because it included me being gaslighted and slandered. However, things have greatly improved for me since as I got out of that situation and have done work with several other agencies and am now a well-respected professional in my field in my region. I would say I even have more power now than my old boss does, and a lot of different smoking guns have come about over the years suggesting I am a good person and she is not. Honestly, I think the biggest reason she tried to hard to mess up my life was that she was intimidated by me and knew I was much smarter and more competent than her.
Anyway, I've been playing with the idea of writing her an email rehashing a few things and indicating I have information on her (which I do) and including a veiled threat that would be very ambiguous. Though I would definitely enjoy ruining her life (because she's a genuinely awful human being), I mostly just want to freak her out. I'm just wondering if I could get in any kind of legal trouble for doing such a thing. Anyone know? Is there a better way to get back at her?
more street cred it you fill it with a strange white powder
secret assassin wrote:
Idontreallyknow wrote:Doesn't sound like you are any different from her if you do it
So someone who kills a serial killer (and no other person) is no better than the serial killer?
Only if you're Dexter
Honestly, I doubt you will follow through with it. You won't.....no balls
The best revenge is living well, brother.
Don't bring crap like this back into your life. Let it go, not for her, but for you.
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