"Came close sort of" has a lot of good advice.
Specifically, using your dual meets as training. I was always trying to break a barrier and I went for it every time. Sometimes the weather is bad, the track is slow, or there just isn't enough competition.
In your small meets, be confident enough to run them like a small meet. Run a double every time. Either 800/3200 or 800/1600 or 1600/3200.
Like he said, pacing is very important. Don't go out too fast. Your orbit is 71-72 with an all-out last lap. Prob going to have to start the season at ~73-74 pace.
If I had to do it over (we ran 17 meets in outdoor, so you prob have much less) I have often thought I would do this goal pace workout in the small meets (if you knew you would win easily):
(For a 9:30 goal = 71.25 pace)
fast lap = 71
easy lap = ~80-82
1)
71-80-71-80-71-80-71-80 ... that is a 10:04
then improve to...
2)
2:22-82-2:22-82-2:22 ... that is a 9:50
then improve to ...
3)
2:58 -easy 200- 2:58 -easy 200- 2:22 ... that is a 9:40
1K-200-1K-200-800m
I don't know if Dellinger invented this kind of workout, but he used it to great effect 30 years ago (although he had his runners do it in training). It is classic goal-pace training.
Or, as has been said, do this:
"At dual/ quads I would recommend purposely running a strong negative split race. Ie Run first mile in 5:00-5:05 then close in 4:45"
This works very well too, especially if you run the 1600 the same way (say like 2:20, close in 2:12-2:14). Just like the 4:45 second 1600, it gives you the feeling and pace judgment for a 4:20-24 mile (66 a lap) without actually running one. If you run the 800 I would just try and run them fairly even like 60-64 or 61-63 = 2:04 or thereabouts.
That way you aren't burning yourself out trying to run a PR every meet, but practicing and callusing yourself for your goal in May and June. In the important races or any race where the conditions are good to go for it and do what "Came Close" says...specifically ...
Go out slow! Don't be dragged along! Don't go out faster than 2 seconds faster than your goal pace, You gain more than you give up by going out really conservative.
So at first for a 9:50:
72-74-74-74-74-75-75-all out
Clearly if you can keep the pace from dragging after the 6th lap, that is great, but most cannot.
Like he said, focus on an 800, 1600, 2400m target. The last 2 laps will take care of themselves. Just get good at judging those 2:22-2:26 paced 800s for later (these will be 2:28-30).
For a 9:40 like this:
71-73-73-73-73-73-73-all out
Then when you are in shape to target your goal:
~69-71-71-72-72-72-73-all out
Clearly some laps will drift a little high, and hopefully laps 5-6-7 won't drift too slow, but that is how it should be done.