Ole Timer wrote:
Yes...I lived in some real dumps, and always with a roomate (or 2...or 3). We ate plenty of ramen. But we were out on our own, and that was exciting. I wouldn't have had it any other way.
I can't imagine leaching off my parents into my late 20s like this. But this is a different generation. We didn't expect to graduate college and be handed a $60k year job. We wanted to buy a house maybe when we turned 30, not when we were graduating college. And we were ok with efficiency apartments with no frills or a cheap starter home. We didn't need a luxury apartment or a 3000sq foot "first home" with granite counter tops and stainless appliances.
I'll start by saying I don't live at home, nor do I want to.
But the notion that our generation needs to have luxuries to move out is amazing, you have put so many words into so many mouths.
Obviously the med student guy is in med school, so of course he can't provide for himself yet.
And two posts ago the guy saying "I bet you aren't really saving for a house, you go to bars with that money." Again you're just making things up.
Your arguments are totally made up. You made them up.
The real issue here is that there are more people than jobs. The labor force is larger than the need for labor. I had to start my own business to become independent, and I'm glad I did. But I wouldn't have made it to this point if I hadn't lived with my parents for almost a year right out of college.