I think I could marry Girl A, but I'm very attracted to Girl B. How to navigate this situation?

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9 years ago 10/26/2014 1:14pm EDT

I've become good friends with Girl A. I think I could possibly marry her. I don't really feel a magical spark with her, but we're just great friends, get along super well, enjoy the same things, are both active, etc. I am attracted to her physically also, but not to the extent of Girl B. Girl B doesn't have much potential for a serious relationship as far as I can tell. I like her, but I don't think we'd be good long-term partners. I am, however, VERY attracted to her and would pursue her hard if not for Girl A. Girl A is currently looking for guys, and I think that if I get tied up with Girl B, my window of opportunity will pass, and since Girl A could end up being my wife, I don't want to let her get away.

Of course what'd be best for me would be to fool around with Girl B and then get Girl A, but I'm not sure that's really feasible. It doesn't help matters that all three of us are within the same circle of friends and see each other regularly.

Anyway, I'm not sure if I should try to have a short term fling with Girl B and then pursue Girl A, or just not mess around with Girl B at all and go after Girl A right now since she's currently available and could be my future wife.

What do you think?

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:00pm EDT

re: tough situation

Which one has the bigger butt?

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:03pm EDT

re: tough situation

Why are you even debating this? Marry both, it's legal now in most States now that "one man, one woman" has been struck down.

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:21pm EDT

re: 26 Corrupt Judges

Um...ever heard of Jordan Hasay say say what you want but don't play games with their affection.

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:24pm EDT

re: tough situation

In some countries, notably one near me, France, it is quite socially acceptable to have a wife and a mistress (or maybe mistresses)

A very civilised arrangement in my view.

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:25pm EDT

re: tough situation

Girl A sounds like the best choice for marriage for your particular situation, in my opinion.

Have fun never having time to yourself, arguing over stupid things, risking the heartbreak of unfaithfulness since at least 1/3 of spouses think about cheating, and spending all of your money on your children's future!

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:26pm EDT

re: Joe Binks

Then why don't you live there instead of your current uncivilized home?

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:26pm EDT

re: DragMeister

Do neither until you figure it out.

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:29pm EDT

re: tough situation

Don't get married until you find Girl C, you stupid c#*t. And just run. Out.

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:32pm EDT

re: tough situation

OP, how old are you? That will factor in my wise answer.

But if you have to ask this you don't deserve girl A.

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:37pm EDT

re: tough situation

Insert tab P in slot A, remove, insert in slot B, remove, repeat. Using a fartlek type pace is advised.

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:40pm EDT

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9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:41pm EDT

re: tough situation

just navigate them away from your basement habitat and you may have some luck

9 years ago 10/26/2014 2:48pm EDT

re: rupp-certified saladbar

rupp-certified saladbar wrote:
OP, how old are you? That will factor in my wise answer.
But if you have to ask this you don't deserve girl A.

I'm 26. Girl A is 28. Girl B is 30 (and hot).

I'm leaning heavily towards making a move on Girl A or being up front with her, but I was just wondering if anyone could see a way to have my cake and eat it too.

9 years ago 10/26/2014 3:46pm EDT

re: tough situation

Don't marry either. You're way to young.

9 years ago 10/26/2014 5:03pm EDT

re: tough situation

Hotness comes and goes. Slap a ring on Girl A before someone else does.

9 years ago 10/26/2014 5:21pm EDT

re: galenswife

You don't understand. Girl B is very HOT. Compare for yourselves.

Girl A

http://goo.gl/WgISw

Girl B

http://oi61.tinypic.com/16batzq.jpg

9 years ago 10/26/2014 5:24pm EDT

re: tough situation

9 years ago 10/26/2014 5:26pm EDT

re: Why do I have to ask

Hello? Look above your post.

9 years ago 10/26/2014 7:10pm EDT

re: Why do I have to ask

Why do I have to ask wrote:
Pics?

Both girls are attractive and will likely remain attractive for quite some time given they are both health conscious and enjoy exercising. Girl B does a bit more for me, but that's my own taste.

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