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| The Next Huck Finn |
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Agreed. Divorce seems the way to go here. Plenty of women want to have sex. We're 9 years and it's 1-4 times a week. Outside of the 4-5 weeks before and after she gave birth I don't know if we have gone much longer than a week. Now don't get me wrong it's. Ot as hot as 9 years ago but she knows it's important. If the wife doesn't get that, it's over. |
| Spiritual Counselor |
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Unfortunately....most don't get it. |
| Just a Gigolo |
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All most chicks want is for you to bang their ass silly and get the hell out. I have followed that rule religiously for over 20yrs and it's never served me wrong. |
| Buster McThunderstik |
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Just took the end of the day to re-read some of these. Don't know if I should be bummed that I am having to press more and more to get the one time a week shag or if I should be happy I am getting a regular weekend shag after 18 years of marriage.... Used to be able to get morning love or mid-week love. Now, have to hope I can get the wife in the sack before she falls asleep on Friday or Saturday. Still, doesn't sound like it is as bad as most out there. |
| Quality Control Inspector |
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Quality? |
| yazoo's nipples |
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Minus the wine this sounds familiar. What is so wrong with daylight? |
| oppuly |
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Lol. This stuff can't be real. Why would someone you are married to not want to have sex? I would think marriage would increase sex because of the commitment and safety. You guys must be lying. |
| Sex? What is it? |
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Will go several weeks without doing it. Been together for three years. |
| push and pull |
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I'm bumping this thread to get updates and any new perspectives. I'm old and single, and I sometimes have pangs of remorse about not marrying, but after reading this I think I avoided a whole host of other problems. What do you married guys think: did you marry the wrong person or did you marry the right girl and she changed? Did you guys talk about marriage sex before you got married? Then did it change no matter the talk and agreement? |
| Unreluctant Test Specimen |
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OK, inspired by this thread I have been keeping track. Jan 1 2012 through May 20 2012 my wife and I have done it 337 times. It has slowed a bit from when we were in our twenties but it seems fine to me. So I don't think that all marriages result in zero sex. All you single guys, don't be terrified of marriage. Just be terrified of marrying someone who you do not really know. Also be terrified of the repercussions of not truly loving your wife (which includes helping out A TON, listening A TON, and making her feel special CONSTANTLY). Age: 51. Years married: 26. |
| push and pull |
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337 times in 141 days! That's about 2-3 times/day, every day, and also assuming that you've been around each other every day this year. That's incredibly impressive, and you are a fortunate man, or it's very hard to imagine. |
| libido x runner |
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^is this for real any one else not believe it |
| Epic |
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Yeah right, d-bag. |
| City Slickers II |
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I'm responding to my own post... About a month a half ago I asked for a divorce. I'm hoping things only get better from here. I think we maybe had sex fifteen times in our near 3 years of marriage. It was terrible. If I could pass along advice to those in thinking about getting married: 1. Make sure you've dated at least five years before taking the plunge. Apparently one and a half years wasn't enough - even though we spent all of our free time together. 2. Make sure your partner doesn't have control or jealously issues. 3. Make sure your partner isn't under three or more mood stabilization prescription meds At my age, mid-30's, it's safe to say I never want to get married again. I truly admire those who are able to make it work. We couldn't. |
| whynot2 |
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Dude, this is silly - who cares if it true. I love my wife, I am horny as the next guy but I don't think I would want sex everyday two to three times a day. That would start to get boring if nothing else.
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| Fat Boy |
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For me, I cut off the next day. We never had sex again. It seems that the whole thing was a con. After stealing all my money and possessions, I now pay her substantial child support every month. (She was pregnant when I married her.) |
| dontflushwhileyousit |
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You obviously don't respect her. You "give her workout time and go out with friends time"? Is she a slave the rest of the time? Maybe if you respect her then she will want to have sex with you on occasion. |
| What are you trying to say? |
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Yeah right, d-bag.[/quote] Wow, the morons on here who think that their life sucks and therefore everyone else' must also suck are so pathetic. Some marriages work. Don't hold your failure against other folks success. In fact, your knee-jerk loser response sounds an awful lot like the folks who hate financially successful people. You know, the old "Hey I'm a loser making $27k per year therefore all those millionaires out there either don't exist or must have inherited/stolen their wealth." My hat's off to the successful married folks, perhaps because I consider myself to be one of them. But I'd like to think (naively perhaps) that even if I were as big of a loser as you I would not hold that against those who are winners. |
| Who the Fru? |
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[/quote] What's silly is that you felt threatened enough by that post to feel a need to respond and somehow try to negate it. If you would be bored by sex two or three times a day, that's fine. Why in the world would you feel the need to call someone "silly" who happened to (apparently) enjoy having sex two or three times a day? |
| dontflushwhileyousit |
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Just out of curiosity, how do you find time to read message boards with all that sex? Oh, and congrats on being married to a nympho. |
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