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Nut Doctor
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/12/2009 12:56PM - in reply to Duh!!! Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Dear Duh!,

It seems like you have a number of options:

1. Live a letsrun.com life of quiet desperation.

2. Try banging some babes on the side.

3. See a marriage counselor together.

4. See a counselor (or priest, rabbi,etc.) by yourself.

5. File for divorce, as she is refusing to have sex with you.

Personally, #2, #3 and #4 seem like OK options, but it's your call. I do think that you have to be cautious of option #2, cuz she might be playing some games, as pointed out by someone else.

PS - I am not a doctor!
here we go
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/19/2009 10:31PM - in reply to Nut Doctor Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
so how many of us went 0 for 3 on this wonderful mlk holiday weekend with the mrs??????
OhFer
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 7:50AM - in reply to here we go Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Count me in. 0 for 3? Hell, I'm 0 for 20 this year! Got very lucky about an before midnight on New Years eve.
<my answer here>
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 8:24AM - in reply to OhFer Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
one for 28 going back pre-Christmas

one for 20 in 2009

and yes ladies I tried TWICE to "assert myself" and got rebuffed.
Married Six Years
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 8:37AM - in reply to here we go Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I'm 3 for 20 for the year so far. Over the weekend, she initiated and we had wild monkey etc...
I feel for you
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 1:46PM - in reply to here we go Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
here we go wrote:

so how many of us went 0 for 3 on this wonderful mlk holiday weekend with the mrs??????


I don't know how many times this equates to however, for the most part since having children, we haven't strayed too far from Saturday Night and usually once during the week. Occasionally on Sunday morning before the day begins and because we're both still ready from the night before. The weekday excercise is more of a "quickie" type and more for me. The weekender(s) can be more of the all eveninger if we count the courtship i.e dress, dinner, movie, etc.... through the dirty deed.

I'll point out that a lot of this is planned which may take away the sponanaity of it all but it also pretty much ensures that it happens which is far more important.
me too.....
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 1:47PM - in reply to Married Six Years Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
She jumped me twice after I fell asleep while she stayed in the living room watching tv. I gave her a 40 minute backrub one other time and ended up doing it. So I'm 3/20. I'd rather be like 15 or 18/20, but I guess it could be worse.
16 years in the making
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 1:56PM - in reply to me too..... Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I was 1/365 last year and so far, I'm 0/20 in 2009. 16 yrs and 2 kids to date - and I'm not complaining (too much).
only 7 mos
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 2:42PM - in reply to 16 years in the making Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
2/20 in 09.
dirk dinkler
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 3:09PM - in reply to only 7 mos Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
2/20 but today isnt over.
Then again i got laid on Saturday so Im expecting to wait another week
Da Man
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 5:30PM - in reply to dirk dinkler Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
8/20 so far, including twice in 6 hours on Saturday. Should make it 9/20 tonight, since it's on her agenda.

Having a planned night once/week helps.
say what
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 5:40PM - in reply to Da Man Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Da Man wrote:

8/20 so far, including twice in 6 hours on Saturday. Should make it 9/20 tonight, since it's on her agenda.

Having a planned night once/week helps.




9 times in 20 years is about average for this thread.
fran that run fan
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 1/20/2009 5:45PM - in reply to need data Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
greenguy
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 7:24PM - in reply to 16 years in the making Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
16 years in the making wrote:

I was 1/365 last year and so far, I'm 0/20 in 2009. 16 yrs and 2 kids to date - and I'm not complaining (too much).


Same, except my 5 year wedding anniversary is this weekend.

Dont you find it funny, how when a woman wants to get pregnant she will root you like crazy - multiple times a day. Then, once she has what she wants, she won't even let you have a play around for 5 minutes. They come up with a myriad of excuses. A then they wonder why you stray - not something i intend on doing
barrister
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 8:23PM - in reply to greenguy Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I'm 8/20 but I was away on business for 10 of the 12 days we didn't do it. My wife is 3 mos. pregnant so maybe it is her hormones that are making her want it now.

Will be interesting to see what happens after the baby comes.
CSI
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 8:27PM - in reply to barrister Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
barrister wrote:

I'm 8/20 but I was away on business for 10 of the 12 days we didn't do it. My wife is 3 mos. pregnant so maybe it is her hormones that are making her want it now.

Will be interesting to see what happens after the baby comes.


My wife was pretty horny when she was pregnant. It was a daily occurance or more during her pregnancies from about month 2 through 7.

After the baby comes it will change. Face it....whether you like it or not...you're no longer her central focus.
gilroy
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/20/2009 8:42PM - in reply to CSI Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
OK my college-aged daughter and her boyfriend had been in our house every night for about a month. My wife have some rule about not doing it when one of the kids are home and one is ALWAYS home.

I finally put my foot down, do some talkin, they are in the basement watching some movie so I tell her how quiet we can be.

It worked.
16 years in the making
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/21/2009 12:48AM - in reply to greenguy Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
At 5 years, I said 'I will never consider outside sex'
At 10 years, I said, 'there are some significant sex drives differences between us'
At 15 years, I said 'I can completely understand why men play around'
At 20 years, who knows what I'll say ...maybe by then I will have played around.
runher
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/21/2009 7:06AM - in reply to gilroy Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
You probably could have easily had sex with your wife cuz your daughter was doing the same thing in the basement.
Usains momma
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff 1/21/2009 7:20AM - in reply to 16 years in the making Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
This is the most meaningful thread/document/piece of literature I have ever read. This rivals the Bible, Constitution, Communist Manifesto, Declaration of Ind etc...Seriously

I know now for certain what I am experiencing is probably a world wide male existance and I feel more connected with the world than I have ever felt before.

God bless you all
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