I've been hanging out with a few different women the last couple of months, but it seems that I always get bored like a week after we've hooked up. Almost come to the point that I don't wanna meet women anymore because of the stress of dropping them later on.
Anyone else have it the same way?
Maybe you are picking the wrong women and/or you are boring as well.
Is it possible you are actually looking for an arrow instead of the quiver?
Take my solid advice - You need to find a woman who's into open relationships right from the off. This is the only way of achieving genuine long term relationship happiness. Yeah other dudes are going to tell you they've been with their wifes 5,10,20+ years whatever and it's great but they are simply lying to you.
No one is getting off on hitting that same ass month after month, year after year. You can pretend but in the end you'll know you're lying to yourself / wasting your time. Best just face the truth that we as a species just love banging around. If you can find that truth in your woman then you will both have the rides - literally - of your life.
Glanton wrote:
I've been hanging out with a few different women the last couple of months, but it seems that I always get bored like a week after we've hooked up. Almost come to the point that I don't wanna meet women anymore because of the stress of dropping them later on.
Anyone else have it the same way?
I think you can feel a connection with someone and it can feel like it won't get old. or that it will last a long time. I have felt that way about someone but we don't always connect, so like you, I feel it gets boring. I get bored of not seeing them so I sometimes give up hope on them and any relationship we could have. I also get frustrated with them when they don't maintain their physical fitness as they are no longer attractive to me that way. So that gets me bored. But true love should mean you really accept someone and want the best for them. I think relationships are what you make of them but they take time and patience. I 'aint perfect. I have felt that I don't have patience for someone. Maybe she hasn't had patience for me? I don't know. I am not bitter. I am emotionally neutral, it's a good place to be.
look for someone with a personality disorder or a serious drug/alcohol problem. never a dull moment, my friend.
Yep they do. But the boredom goes both ways. If you’re a wise person though, you understand the importance and value of stability, fidelity and mutual trust in your life. Therefore you will go to the nth degree to nurture your long term commitments and find ways of growing together instead of growing apart.
relationships are as boring as the people in them
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