Mary gained weight and Alberto didn't baby her. Rather he treated her as he did all his other athletes, which was being brutally honest, by all accounts of the other two women he coached who said he also told them they were too big at times. While it's sad that Mary feels she was shamed, I don't agree that the "biggest coach in the world in charge of the biggest program", your words, should be held to the fire for not babying Mary Cain. When Lebron went straight to the NBA, do you think the Cavs treated him with baby gloves (No swearing in locker room, no talking about his body, no beers around Lebron)? It sounds like everyone thinks Alberto should have dropped everything and been Mary's father instead of her coach.