So here’s the story behind this post. Last year I was on tinder and I swiped right and connected with someone. Unfortunately, after we got chatting she told me she was heading back to South Africa and only here for a friends wedding.
So fast forward a year and we chatted mostly every day. Then she asked me to go there and I panicked I wasn’t wanting to commit to her in anyway. She had fallen for me and wanted to see what happened.
So I just sort of drifted away for 8-10 weeks. I thought about her a lot but just didn’t want to text her. Then out of the blue she text me. I felt butterflies and was smiling so much. We have text and called non stop since. She is literally everything I could dream of in a woman. She wasn’t into athletics but we sat and watched Doha together (not literally) and she was so enthusiastic about it. My last girlfriends hated athletics never made any effort. But also so many other things we match on. I didn’t know someone like this could exist.
So I think I do love this woman. I’ve seen her on facetime talked on the phone. Sent messages but just never met her. I’m in the UK she is in SA.
What should I do about this?
