Recently found out my partner of three years cheated on me while on a work trip. It was with a friend from her college days; apparently got drunk on the last night in town. Obviously feeling a range of emotions. She was straightforward and told me as soon as she got back, and said it was the biggest mistake of her life. I told her I need time to think about whether we should try and make things work, and have been sleeping in a different room and generally avoiding any interaction over the past few days.
Has anyone on here had experience with mending a relationship after their partner cheated? I suspect most will strongly encourage me to end things and tell my partner to move out. But welcome any helpful insights/experiences; I'm really having a rough time and never thought she was capable of doing something like this.
For context, I'm 30/M, she's 26/F; we live together (in my house) and have no kids.