Would you rat out a cheating friend?

Anon2000 wrote:

What about communicating with the wife. Give her the option of confessing or else you will inform the husband.

She has 24 hours.

yep. Not surprised everyone on here thinks otherwise, but making sure he finds out is necessary.

If you want to stay friends with any of them you have to be quiet. they will just project their hate for the drama and evil things on you. If you don't care about them then you could tell. but why would you then tell at all? So its very logical what is right to do

It's a bit shocking all the MYOB responses. The guy 100% has the right to know his wife is cheating. I agree it's best if it came from her. Don't get ****ing married if you're going to cheat; it's not that hard.

Officialdb wrote:

Anon2000 wrote:

What about communicating with the wife. Give her the option of confessing or else you will inform the husband.

She has 24 hours.

yep. Not surprised everyone on here thinks otherwise, but making sure he finds out is necessary.

It was brought up earlier, and I agree. If they are married and have no kids, inform him in some way, shape or form, whether it be directly to him or anonymous. If kids are involved, leave it be, the wife will be her own worse enemy at some point and leave a clue out there.

What a bunch of sorry selfish SOBs you lot are. Pathetic scheming lowlifes.

Snitches get stitches.

What do you think the consequences would be if the dude getting cheated on found out about the cheating and that you knew but didn't say anything to him?

Do you care what those consequences are?

What would you do if you knew your friend was hooking up with a married woman and you didn't know her or her husband?

Would you care? Would you still tell your friend he shouldn't be doing it or did you only do that since you know the husband and wife?

How well do you know the married couple?

Do you plan on remaining friends with the single guy?

I think we need answers to these questions and probably more to offer any real advice. I do not think it is a black and white between of course you tell crowd and the STFU crowd.

Keep us updated on the whole situation.

If you're my friend and you know my wife is fooling around on me I would want you to tell me. That's a real friend.

nosnitch wrote:

a good friend of mine was sleeping with another friend's wife. My good friend is single

I don't think your good friend is cheating, because he is single. So why rat him out?

Let's flip the script here.

You're a girl and you find out one of your single girlfriends is sleeping with a married man. His wife is your best friend.

What would the average woman do?

She'd go screaming to her best friend and they'd roast that guy in court. It is the right thing to do.

Get the number of a divorce lawyer before you tell your buddy so that he can head straight to them.

The husband already knows and doesn't care, because he's sleeping with OP's wife.

The people saying "it's none of your business" are philanderers and the people saying "rat him out" are cops

Atheists Handbook wrote:

nosnitch wrote:

. What happened to do onto others as you would have done to you?.

People stopped believing religious BS.

This is why the West is collapsing.

Do you really think the husband doesn’t know? I mean what married woman goes around out in public with another man knowing she may run into other acquaintances...it seems clear here it isn’t like she’s hiding this situation. Am I right?

Phil Knight wrote:

Let's flip the script here.

You're a girl and you find out one of your single girlfriends is sleeping with a married man. His wife is your best friend.

What would the average woman do?

She'd go screaming to her best friend and they'd roast that guy in court. It is the right thing to do.

Get the number of a divorce lawyer before you tell your buddy so that he can head straight to them.

Oh, so now we are supposed to consider the way that women conduct themselves to be the perfect guide on how to be a man? Great. The pussification of the American man is complete!

Off Topic. wrote:

Bands a make hoes dance wrote:

So if someone is complacent when they witness or know of abuse or rape

Neither of which have anything to do with this thread.

Cheating is spousal abuse and should be reported.

You're an idiot.

Yes, the poster you replied to certainly is an idiot.

It is incredible that people think they should police other people's sex lives. Absolutely incredible. We've become a nation of 12 year-old girls.

dunes runner wrote:

nosnitch wrote:

I think what he is doing is wrong. I told him that and said I thought he should stop.

You told him how you felt. That's enough.

Beyond that, what happens between other people is none of your business.

You don't actually know what happened, and trying to cause problems for others smacks of questionable ethics.

This ^

dunes runner wrote:

They say... wrote:

you condone his cheating by doing nothing. You're as big a scumbag as him.

That's totally wrong.

The OP has control of his own life only, not anyone else's.

He said what he wanted to say, and he has the choice to not be friends anymore, IF that's what he wanted to do.

Either way, that's between them, not some random control freak, and is none of your business.

^ Right again!

Charlie wrote:

End the friendship with the guy who is cheating and tell him you are going to tell the guy then tell the guy being cheated on about it. Before doing this stuff get a concealed weapons permit and learn how to shoot to kill. Start wearing a body cam then when this e friend goes off on ya and you drill him you can post it on youtube and go viral.

or

mind your own business

^ Nailed it!