Dating is harder then 26:17 or 12:37

It’s because you write ‘then’ when the correct word is ‘than’.

Girls realize you are stupid when you do this. Girls do not like stupid boys, as a general rule.

Speaking English will help matters wrote:

It’s because you write ‘then’ when the correct word is ‘than’.

Girls realize you are stupid when you do this. Girls do not like stupid boys, as a general rule.

Than why are idiots the ones having the most kids?

doot doot wrote:

Banana Bread wrote:

Why is dating so hard. Everytime I go to for a coffee date with a girl it never goes anywhere. It feels like this video sums up all my experiences. This is like my latest experience from yesterday

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_Ge4F4E9JE

All you need to do is ask yourself: “What Would Bekele Do?”

He’d take his date out to a trail and run her to death. Go hard from the outset and never let up. Women love that.

Excellent advice.

letscallitlikeitis wrote:

doot doot wrote:

All you need to do is ask yourself: “What Would Bekele Do?”

He’d take his date out to a trail and run her to death. Go hard from the outset and never let up. Women love that.

Excellent advice.

It happened IRL

Banana Bread wrote:

I think he looks good. Girls like guys which are happy within(hence the smiles). He might have messed up the date when he started crying but he looked dressed real good. I often were marathon finisher tops but think a suit and tie might be a good change for me. He also took her to the Raddison in that movie so maybe I need to go somewhere fancy. I usually pick Starbucks because it is never really busy and has so much space compared to any other loud coffee shop around me. I guess a hotel like a Raddison would be good if it has a big dining area.

You haven't a clue what girls want Banana Bread. You're going to be their 'gay best friend' over and over and over again.

Banana Bread wrote:

Why is dating so hard. Everytime I go to for a coffee date with a girl it never goes anywhere. It feels like this video sums up all my experiences. This is like my latest experience from yesterday

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_Ge4F4E9JE

A "coffee date," with a person you've never met before, isn't really a date. It's a meet and greet, so each party can see how you look in person.

In the first half second they've made up their mind. Doesn't matter if they are female or male. That first one second is to decide if you are "doable." Can they imagine ever having sex with you.

Your job is to keep showing up in a good mood, with no stress, and roll with it. The decision has already been made by the fate of her past life and whether she could imagine going reverse cowgirl on your joy-stick some night.

What people should really do is just spin around in front of each other and then both count to three, "rock-paper-scissors" style and go thumbs up or thumbs down. If both parties don't signal "thumbs up," you just shake your hands and say "thanks for your time and good luck to you, no harm, no foul."

Then move on to the next one. Eventually you'll meet someone.

You're frustration is that you are tired of being alone, and yanking your crank.

Take heed, have confidence, relax. Eventually you will find a woman as water seeks its' own level.

Sand Dunes wrote:

Banana bread, from what I've read you live in Texas? There should a lot of señoritas out there for you. They are much nicer than American women.

Stop trying to cover your @ss Jamin by having your troll accounts post about where the other ones ‘live’.

ThatAverageRunner wrote:

Sand Dunes wrote:

Banana bread, from what I've read you live in Texas? There should a lot of señoritas out there for you. They are much nicer than American women.

Stop trying to cover your @ss Jamin by having your troll accounts post about where the other ones ‘live’.

I didn't, he has said on this board many many times about living in Texas.

Girl here-- we don't have anything against "guy runners" if that's what you're trying to get at. In fact, I like guy runners! They're driven, fit, and interesting. Coffee is a bad first date. It's boring. Try going to mini golf, a drive-in movie, or something like that. That way, instead of an awkward conversation, you can talk about the activity you're doing (why mini golf is great). Show her you're fun and creative.

Also since you relate to the video clip, it seems like you have a hard time not being awkward. You need to read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" now! Three rules I picked up from it:

1. use a person's name a lot when talking

2. ask the other person questions about herself

3. talk in terms of the other person's interests

"To be interesting is to be interested"

I hate when guys make excuses or complain about how no girls like them... we have an open mind just don't be weird or anything. Ask her questions about herself and what she likes to do but throw in your own anecdotes. Also: eye contact, touch her hand, smile, etc. (but not over the top b/c it might seem creepy)

jaym wrote:

Girl here--

Pics?

Jamin and Banana Bread should go out together to pick up girls. They can be each other's wing man.

They wouldn't even be in competition either. Banana Bread would hit on the 30 year old overweight SJW chubbies with 'personality', and Jamin would chase the 19 year old Ukrainian fashion models.

Coevett wrote:

Jamin and Banana Bread should go out together to pick up girls. They can be each other's wing man.

They wouldn't even be in competition either. Banana Bread would hit on the 30 year old overweight SJW chubbies with 'personality', and Jamin would chase the 19 year old Ukrainian fashion models.

It would be like Charlie and Mac on its always sunny.

Yup. EVERYTHING she said, I agree.

It's NOT that hard. Also, that book really helped me at work.

Okay heres the deal.. wrote:

What people should really do is just spin around in front of each other and then both count to three, "rock-paper-scissors" style and go thumbs up or thumbs down. If both parties don't signal "thumbs up," you just shake your hands and say "thanks for your time and good luck to you, no harm, no foul."

Then move on to the next one. Eventually you'll meet someone.

Where dreams become reality... It's called Tinder

Why are you bothering with dating? You should be running.

Curious what anyone recommends for a man

who's very creative yet has not found success with relationships.

I know how to connect with women in terms of being friendly, asking about them, etc.

I'm not too serious. I can joke around.

I just don't have the resources in my life to be truly independent.

That's obviously a big one, as women aren't, as a rule of thumb, attracted to a man without resources.

I prioritize being happy from within and don't look to women for fulfilment.

It seems I am on a never ending battle of

not having the money I desire and consequently not having any kind relationship.

This could change soon as I make efforts to improve myself on a daily basis.

I thought I met a woman who I really connected with.

However, she was not ultimately interested as I was not very financially successful.

It can be very difficult to fit into a world when you have struggled with employment and

have not found success with your efforts to be entrepreneurial.

I believe banana on another thread said he is autistic or has asperger's. If that's the case, he struggles with reading other people's emotions, facial cues, and even slight nuances of language. He doesn't understand what's appropriate and what's not in any given situation. There were a few threads here a year or two ago where sufferers, parents and even the husband of an autistic woman described some of the challenges. I suspect banana might benefit from some form of cognitive therapy to learn how to interact within social norms. But it's not easy for people with autism/asperger's.

Be confident, be bold but don't be a nice guy. Women aren't attracted to nice guys like us unless they are Paul Walker-good looking. Good looking women always have arsehole boyfriends. Ask them questions, but always leave them wanting more. Don't appear needy.

doot doot wrote:

letscallitlikeitis wrote:

Excellent advice.

It happened IRL

It's true.