It could make some sense. I'll give it a shot if you're open to it.
See the world today has kinda pigeon-holed itself by really getting specific with definitions for things. Imagine what being an American meant a couple hundred years ago to an uncentralized, disorganized plot of terrain. Compare it to now when many people who have citizenship can be called unAmerican because they don't like sports, don't care about patriotism, etc. Anyway, that's just a general example of the idea of evolving definitions.
This part may be a bit more challenging to some, but- we come from nature. Even for those who are Creationsits, just think back pre-modern technology- you collected your own food, made your own clothes. What we knew back then was that nature is a wild untamable horse we did our best to ride on to stay alive. Generally speaking nature is unpredictable and undefinable. For instance- you can't define the season of Spring. Spring is really just a name disignated to a vague idea. In that same way a horse isn't a horse, it's what we call something.
Anywho, fast forward to now, a time where people get caught up with spelling errors on message boards. We have nuanced science and so on. We are a long way from remembering that a thing is what it is, we just give a name to it.
The issue with gender and identity I imagine is a strong reaction to how firm these titles have become to define things. Some folks may feels like it is so aggressive that the world trying to force them to be this definition rather than themselves.
It seems crazy to me that, in all the wild possibilities of nature, some people think there is a limited way of being. We have humans who are two feet tall and ten feet tall, ajd everything in between. We have quiet people and loud people, strong and frail- ajd everything in between. If we have manly men and womanly women, why wouldn't we have everything in between that too, like a biological man who feels very feminine and vise-versa.
That's what seems insane to me- is that there are people out there that think there is only one or two ways to be. I admit these days where human "progress" has introduced paperwork and detailed systems of organizing information it becomes more of a complex issue than it should be.
But there's no reason to be afraid. Don't forget like Eliud believes- anything is possible.