I know I'll get troll comments but anyway, here goes nothing.
My partner and I have been together about a year. We work only 5 minutes apart, and lived fairly close by too. Recently, my lease expired and I'm in between leases for a few weeks/in a temporary place: now I live about 30 minutes away (more if traffic is worse). This has made it a little harder to coordinate hangouts. Anyway, my partner said there was a work happy hour at a co-worker's place on Friday (it has happened before) and so they might be a bit late. I went about my own plans/hung out with my own group of friends, but didn't hear from them since Friday afternoon. I haven't heard from them yet (we're on pacific time and it's still morning/I know they like to sleep in on weekends) but I'm kind of annoyed I didn't even get a courtesy text about it.
Anyway, what sometimes ends up happening is a last minute plan like getting a text the same day of and a "maybe we can do something today?" type thing. I'm tired of it and if that happens today, I'm just going to say "oh sorry I can't do today" and leave it at that (I did make some plans today anyway because I didn't hear back). And just let them figure out what to do next.
I have mentioned before that it would be nice to make plans ahead of time, but I feel like things have gotten complacent and I've let things slide too much/been too easy-going. The problem is I'm bad at expressing this and sometimes feel like I'm coming across as needy.
Anyway am I right to be annoyed here? And what's the best way to handle things? I know this is a dumb question but any advice would be appreciated.