runnerguy315 wrote:
The baby doll head was my single morbid joke said/done to or around crazy moms daughter. but she has told me that it is the reason they "can't trust" me. They also claim that that event is the reason that she can't talk to males or trust them. They act like I committed a crime when it was simply an immature dark humor joke made by a 15 year old boy. get over it.
The mother is right.
Your teammate's mother is getting flustered up about that?
I've done more crazy things at college and I am 100% CERTAIN that people attack my character. Even my ex-best friend would start bullying and intimidating me when he realized that I wouldn't be a normal, frat-boy type at college.
A few weeks after I did some ambiguous act that got the attention of thousands of people, I was in the dining common and one of the student workers looked at me with wide, horror-filled eyes. It was like she was so scared to serve me a sandwich.
FYI, I used to work in the dining common too at that same college.
Anyways, some people like my stunts, others don't. To me, as long as SOMEONE ELSE gets it, then I am happy because I am not alone.
When I was a senior at college, some guy asked me if I was that guy who did that thing a long time ago. He gave me a handshake.
Who cares if most people don't get your jokes. You don't have to please them all. And you don't have to keep visiting that old scenario.
In the end what matters is karma. You can have dark jokes in bad taste, but never try to hurt someone intentionally.
pond scum wrote:
In the end what matters is karma. You can have dark jokes in bad taste, but never try to hurt someone intentionally.
The point is that it wasn't a joke. It was stupid and insulting.
Ignorant people think that stupid and insulting is funny, but you're wrong.
scrunnerr wrote:
i know who you are and i know this mom and you just gotta pretend to listen to her. good luck :)
Hahah yep that's what I was thinking, contact me if you can, id like to know your connection, or just say some way for me to identify you like who you run for or who you're related to.
Clueless high school boy ... wrote:
runnerguy315 wrote:
I am highly confident that the guys on the team respect and like me
Your offensive joke gift was probably funny to your guy friends. Are you gay?
no, I am not at all gay. It's just that most of the girls on my team are either younger than me, not my type, both, or a few also enjoy my sense of humor or atleast pretend to. So that is why I don't much care what my girls team thinks of me.
What if it was OP's intent for it to be a joke?
But then the receiver of that joke actually thought it was a malicious attack or an insult?
From an outside perspective, who would you side with?
A long time ago I made a post about running in the park. There was a guy who rode with his puppy. He was on a bicycle. That park had a no bikes allowed sign on all sides. It was an isolated park in a small area in a city.
I was running, made a quick turn and the bicyclist and I collided into each other. His puppy's paw looked broken, but in the end he was fine.
There were a few teenage girls who had their cellphones and they were recording everything. That guy was yelling and threatening to hurt me because I "collided" into him and his puppy was hurt.
Who do you think those teenage girls sided with? Did they feel sad for me getting injured? Or did they feel sad for the puppy who was thrown out from the bike after our collision?
Was I the bad guy? Or was that bicyclist the bad guy?
Remember, there was a no-bikes allowed sign posted on all sides of the small park.
pond scum wrote:
Was I the bad guy? Or was that bicyclist the bad guy?
Remember, there was a no-bikes allowed sign posted on all sides of the small park.
The corporate machine that manufactured the bike tires made from oil sourced products produced through Mother Earth (Gaia) destroying fracking is the bad guy.
It’s obvious you need to win this family’s trust back. You can order on line dolls made to order that look like someone real. Have one made of the girl, give the doll the Same name as the girl and bring it to meets. Even better talk to the doll nicely on the bus. That should get you in the good graces of the family. If it doesn’t work out by the end of the season, send that doll head to the mom.
I'm old now, but I did a similar thing about 30 years ago with two doll heads, a Barbie and a Ken. No homeschooling back then. Well, I actually got the homeschooling...as in expelled. This was pre-911 and pre-psychobabble. Threw me out of school in my senior year. I got my GED. Then community college. Then eventually I got an masters degree, but it took me 15 years to do what should have taken six years. I should have just done the wrinkly mother.
3 pages or responses so I'll give your creative writing piece a 5/10 on the troll o meter.
You should make it up to the family by asking the girl to prom in a creative way.
In the loop wrote:
You should make it up to the family by asking the girl to prom in a creative way.
Agreed. You should dress up the headless doll in a gown with a sash across saying " Prom?". See how that goes over with the mom. Hey its worth a try to shut her up. If all else fails go to the coach and say, "I can't work like this anymore. Take care of her"
Do you still do crazy douche stunts, or have you "matured?" I agree, talk to the coach. But, if she confronts you yet again, you could say something to the effect of, "Excuse me, but are you STILL obsessing about that? That was so three years ago. If it still bothers you, talk to the coach; I've got better things to do, like prepare for this (meet, race, practice, etc.). Otherwise, why you just Sierra Tango Foxtrot Uniform?" All said respectfully and with a smile. That "might" shut her up.
Is she a milf though? lol jk
runnerguy315 wrote:
I am a rising senior this year and the fastest on my team by a good amount. I'm pretty good but no super star (right under 9:30 3200m), anyways, I display a great amount of hard work and dedication at practice. I take care of business and get after it, but i also have a lot of fun and goof off a good amount.
The crazy mother of a female teammate (who is homeschooled, but zoned for my High school) has approached me on several occasions berating me and calling me a stupid highschool boy who gets no respect on the team because I act stupid. I don't drink or smoke anything- so when she says act stupid she is referring to my wide range of sense of humor that she can't appreciate. (as she is not socially fluent) I am highly confident that the guys on the team respect and like me, should I just tell this crazy lady to back off or just keep smiling and nodding? (avoiding confrontation)
P.S. part of the reason that she hates me Is that, as a freshman i gave her daughter a baby doll head as a joke gift at a team christmas party. They legitimately got scared and have seen me as a twisted person since then as they don't understand most forms of humor. I am not aggressive and dont make morbid jokes regularly, but that gift was funny and clever to a 15 year old boy.
You will find that most intellects have zero sense of humor. Home schooled people also have shown to be way behind in social skills in college. You my friend, are experiencing things yet to come. This will happen more and more in the coming years. Look at Maryland University Football. Parents screaming and crying because they witnessed the head coach yelling at players. Liberals are everywhere. Most are very weak and never served their country or ever will. Yet they abuse the rights obtained by war and military actions.
Do what I did when a liberal mom complained to me, I said "man, you are so hot.."
give it a rest wrote:
Dumb idea
"I'm really sorry for that prank I did a few years ago. I've learned my lesson and don't do things like that anymore. I hope someday you might see this and forgive me. In the meantime I will continue to do my best to be a decent human being. Thank you for holding me accountable for my actions, as this has helped me greatly to change my behavior."
Nothomeschooling wrote:
2 0f 3 homeschooling mom's are nuts. Nothing is good enough for them. You should have known this since you are so socially fluent and directed your brilliant sense of humor elsewhere.
Yes and yes. If you ever come in contact with a homeschool mom run. They are whacked out for the most part. If you are reading this and homeschool your kids you are most likely a whacko.
Carrie the prom queen wrote:
In the loop wrote:
You should make it up to the family by asking the girl to prom in a creative way.
Agreed. You should dress up the headless doll in a gown with a sash across saying " Prom?". See how that goes over with the mom. Hey its worth a try to shut her up. If all else fails go to the coach and say, "I can't work like this anymore. Take care of her"
Genius man , pure genius
I'm surprised to learn that gifting doll heads is done by more than a few guys. Can someone explain?
you’re both wrong wrote:
Chuckle. wrote:
Sending a doll head like that indicates that you have serious mental problems. The mother is correct. I wouldn’t want you anywhere near children.
You should seek professional mental counseling. Seriously. You are messed up and you don’t realize it.
People tend to pick one side or the other in these discussions, but let’s keep in mind that it’s possible for both to be in the wrong. Yeah, giving someone a severed doll head as a gag gift is bizarre, but a parent who gets in the middle of the situation has to be....
Parents protecting their kid.
5/10 for so many replies.