Don’t divorce
So its that time of the year where couples, men and women, may be having problems. Seeing thats its the Holidays they delay resolving their marital problems. Lawyers say that January 1st, that there are many filing for divorce.
If you find yourself in this position try what I did. A 30 day sex challenge, husband and wife sex challenge.
I read, “at day 14 you will find it to be a challenge or challenging to continue having sex. But Don’t stop!”
Keep going.
Now, truly it will turn into 24 or, at most 26 days of sex because of the wife’s monthly.
But the result will be “no divorce”, no alimony, no damaged kids, no strange boyfriends for her or girlfriends for you.
I heard that in Muslim Indonesia, a man divorces and remarries, keeping his old wife and kids in his same house with the new wife. Polygamy also exists in other muslim countries but here we are different. And divorce is usually a bitter event, not that an Indonesian house hold is paradise.
But I’ve heard crazy divorce stories. One story, an 8 year old kid, he hurt himself badly, we’ll never know why he did that to himself. He is no longer around.
In divorce kids lie, you can’t trust them to tell the truth, they say what they think you want to hear.
Next story, guy quits job to make Mom suffer, kid suffers too, but Mom had a boyfriend.
So back to the solution.
Im not saying my marriage was on the rocks but it needed work last November and December. So we read a book and took the challenge.
The results from December 29, 2016 to now have been interesting. We’ve kept it up.
Obvious to all, a woman’s Monthly cycle will keep you from being intimate for 5 days but still intimacy can and does happen those days for the male depending on her giving and serving energy.
You as a Married male can only “shop” at home. If a woman is complaining that a man goes to happy hour, if she complains that he leaves the house frustrated at mid-night, if
The list goes on.
I say this because my wife is smart, actually highly intelligent but she confessed not to know a golden rule to marriage “men love your wives and women respect your husbands”. She first learned this in the year 2014. I was shocked, because I learned that many years ago.
This can be described as marriage maintenance. Sounds funny, huh?
Affair sounds worse. Key the lovers car door? Flat their tires?
If women and men are not humble in marriage they can easily be divorced and ‘losing’.
YTD, we’ve had 247 intimate nights this year.
Work and travel occasionally disrupted the schedule.
Why did I post this long post?
The timing
And, this is my gift to LRC.
Let me know something, tell me what you have on your mind related to this.
if you have heard of this 30 day challenge?
if you tried it and it worked?
if you’re marriage is in trouble?
if you may suggest it to your wife?