Girl led me on then friend zoned me

Same thing happened to me. You’ve got zero hope and just need to move on with your life and find someone else.

Dude. Tell her you have feelings and you want to date exclusively. If she says no than move on. No such thing as a friend zone. It's just desperate guys hanging on. You'll be better off dating other women & in the end if she does have feelings will make her plead for you back.

Your current relationship: she doesn't GAF about you, yet you're still pursuing her.

Yeah, I can see why she doesn't want that relationship to change. She enjoys your attention.

What you need to do now is to continually buy her gifts. Small gifts, large gifts, inexpensive gifts, lavish gifts. Just keep piling those gifts on her until she begs you to stop because her current house isn't big enough. Then you tell her that you can buy her a big ol' house to store all of her gifts as long as she marries you. That'll show her to mess with your heart!

Uhhhhhh wrote:Do I have any hope?

No. Stop telling stories where you are the wronged person.

She's not into you. Don't burn any bridges. Move on.

If you want her to want you then start seeing someone else. She almost likes you but she wants a man not a boy. You think you're the nice guy but you're actually the beta guy.

It's easy to get out of the friendzone - stop being friends. Always be prepared to walk away from the negotiation table!

Man up wrote:

Dude. Tell her you have feelings and you want to date exclusively. If she says no than move on. No such thing as a friend zone. It's just desperate guys hanging on. You'll be better off dating other women & in the end if she does have feelings will make her plead for you back.

This dude is right. Kinda different situation in that my girl has two kids and was coming out of a 10 year relationship (she’s only 28). After the first date she said it was the best time she’s had but she doesn’t think she’s emotionally ready yet for a relationship. I get it, I mean, she went through a lot. I pretty much cut her out and a month later she saw me talking to someone else and she randomly texted me for a second date.

Point is, move on. Tell her you want to be with her. If she says no, cut her out of your life. Don’t let her keep hurting you. It’s tough but you’ll be way better off. If she wants to hang out as friends, just say no. If she’s interested, her attitude will change. If not, you won’t waste any more time.

As someone else said: "there's no game if there aren't any players".

It sounds like you haven't put your feeling on the table however and try to make it sound like she's the one leading you on. Don't waste your damn time son there are a bunch of worthwhile girls out there.

You know you don't just have to assume every relationship just ends with sex. You can be friends with women, too.

Girls are just girls ;)) Nothing to add

This happens to me all the time and I've had enough. I'm always told I'm perfect, I'm the nicest and cutest guy ever, I'm like family, but they never want things to go further. There just idiots which don't know what they want and end up going out with douches and morans.

no wrote:

Same thing happened to me. You’ve got zero hope and just need to move on with your life and find someone else.

This. Move on. Don't be a stalker

FightFor15 wrote:

You know you don't just have to assume every relationship just ends with sex. You can be friends with women, too.

Nope. Not after you are like 14 years old. No point.

Women are not worth being friends with. Too much drama. Too little fun.

Even girls would rather have guy friends.

OP: immediately go No Contact with this girl. She is NOT your friend. She is USING YOU for attention while she is trying to get Chad.

Uhhhhhh wrote:

Exactly like the title says. She says she doesn’t want our relationship to change at all, and she wants to be like this forever. But at the same time she shows all the signs of being into me (and all her friends thought she was into me). Do I have any hope?

Then be her friend dummy. If you know anything about a girl you will eventually nail her if you are a good friend

Just be up front and say that you want a relationship with her. If she says she doesn't want one, move on to the next man, it won't be worth your time to stick around. If she says yes, then you'll know what to do.

Good luck brutha

Miss Crabapple wrote:

The only thing to do now is move on and bitterly attack any outspoken women anonymously with posts on LRC.

Thisx1000000

She’s not into you, she just likes the good boy attention you give her. She gets emotional support from you while she’s hooking up with bad boys.

The good news is there’s no shortage of women out there for you... Maybe one of her jealous friends?

Uhhhhhh wrote:

Exactly like the title says. She says she doesn’t want our relationship to change at all, and she wants to be like this forever. But at the same time she shows all the signs of being into me (and all her friends thought she was into me). Do I have any hope?

She was just looking for better options.

Man up wrote:

Dude. Tell her you have feelings and you want to date exclusively.

^ Horrible advice. What you really need to do is tell her you want a FWB relationship. If she says no, remind her that you're both adults and she needs to take a more mature approach. If there are any serious feelings to be had with her, the sexual relationship will bring it out. Just remember: Sex first...dating second.